Mirilok card file card file on the topic. Psychological games for preschool children Looking through the lessons of Natalia Vasilyeva, you

No matter how much you love your baby and no matter how much time you spend with him, sooner or later he will want to play not only with you, but also with his peers. And it's natural. In order to avoid quarrels over who will be the driver, counting rhymes were invented. Everything is fair in them, and therefore no one is offended by how the choice was distributed - who to drive and who to run away. In addition, counting rhymes are a great memory training for your baby. Rhyming rhymes, as well as myrillas, you can come up with yourself, and even better - involve a child in this. Then from your joint work you can get funny counting rhymes with the names of your baby's friends. Good luck to you!

Children's counting

Lived by the river

Two funny old ladies.

We climbed onto the wattle fence,

Laughed all day

And then they cooked cabbage soup.

We run, you look for us.

Vitamins A, B, C

Everyone gathered on the porch.

Began to think and wonder

How to play the game.

And I decided to run, jump,

B - sit, kick your legs,

S - does not know how to be here,

Well, you will drive!

One, two, three, four, five!

Once - all the kids gathered,

Two - let's play cat and mouse,

Three, four - we run,

Five - you go look!

Do, re, mi, fa, salt, la, si,

The cat sat in a taxi

Paid five rubles

And I went to the museum.

And the kittens clung

And ride for free.

Who will pay for them?

Chur, not me! You lead!

Shyrli-myrli, tra-ta-ta!

A cat married a cat

We were invited to the wedding.

We ate cake, drank kvass there.

And now it's time to play.

Chur, you will catch up!

One two Three!

And you will be the trap!

Ta-ra-ra, ta-ra-ra!

The game starts.

Let's play together

Who will look for us?

One two Three,

That's right, it will be you!

Walked along the river crocodile,

Smoked a long pipe.

His pipe fell

And beautifully wrote:

"YOU-HO-DE"!

Three raccoons walked through the forest

And they ate sausage.

At this time, sperm whales

The fox was waiting on the sea.

The tigers slept, the fishes sang,

Monkeys sat in a puddle.

This is such nonsense.

Do you drive? Of course yes!

The hippos lay on the warm shore,

Nearby the crocodiles were playing leapfrog.

Tili-mile, tro-ba-gu,

You drive and I run!

Sasha, Masha, Aliya -

These are all my friends.

We decided to play.

Who will be chasing?

One two Three,

That's right, it will be you!

Mirilki for children

Make peace, make peace, make peace

And, mind you, don't get mad!

And if you get angry

Then I'll tease.

If we tease

How are we going to behave?

We can't go wrong,

We are friends again!

We quarrel and make up

We bite, we fight

And then to colic

We laugh at ourselves.

So why make people laugh?

We'd better be friends.

All kids are bullies

They can't do without a fight.

Well, we're friends now.

We can't fight.

If you quarrel with your neighbor,

Don't forget to reconcile

You don't want to be evil

Means, best friend be.

One, two, three, four, five,

You will be my friend again.

Make peace, make peace, make peace
And fight no more.
And if you fight
Then I will bite.
And we can't bite
Because we are friends

Let's all make peace

Let's all make peace
Share toys.
And who will not reconcile -
Let's not deal with that

Girlfriends

Let's not quarrel girlfriends
We are so sad without a friend!

Don't fight

Don't fight, don't fight
Come on, make up quickly

stop being angry

Stop being angry with us
Hurry, let's make up:
- You are my friend!
And I'm your friend!
We will forget all insults
And be friends, as before!

warm ray

The sun will come out from behind the clouds
A warm ray will warm us.
And we can't fight
Because we are friends.

Let's be friends

How to swear and tease
It's better for us to put up with you!
It is very boring to live in a quarrel,
Therefore, let's be friends!

Finger for a finger

Finger for a finger
We'll take it tight
Used to fight
And now for nothing.

Peace-peace forever

Peace-peace forever
Can't fight anymore
And then grandma will come
And kicks in the ass

Make up, make up - don't fight anymore

Make peace, make peace
Fight no more.
If you fight
I will bite.
And biting - nothing to do with it,
Let's fight with bricks.
And the brick breaks
Friendship begins!

How to swear and tease

What to swear and tease,
It's better for us to put up with you!
Let's smile together
Songs to sing and dance
swim in the lake in summer
And pick strawberries
Ice skating in winter
Bab sculpt, play snowballs,
Sharing sweets for two
All problems and secrets.
It is very boring to live in a quarrel,
So let's be friends!

How to reconcile children? Children are children! They are very impulsive, their mood changes as if by magic. Here the kids play, laugh, have fun and make friends so that it seems that nothing can separate them. And suddenly, the mood changes dramatically, a scream, crying is heard and ... the crumbs no longer want to see each other.

Such conflicts between children occur quite often. The task of adults is to teach kids to find a way out of any conflict situations, to show how to do it right.

How to reconcile children how to do it best?

Immediately after a quarrel, try to listen to the kids and understand the essence of the problem. Let each child express his point of view, why a quarrel arose, what caused tears and resentment. When asking the crumbs leading questions, discuss with them the reason for the conflict. And gently push the guys to independently find a way out of this situation.
You can just take the children by the hands, separate them into different rooms and forbid them to play together. Having heard about the ban, the children will immediately forget their grievances.
If before you ran and separated fighting children, now do it differently. Approach the children, stand and stand silently. Your unusual reaction will make the kids stop, look at you with bewilderment and ... stop the quarrel.

How to reconcile children? Stand or seat the guys facing each other, as close as possible so that their noses touch. Literally, in a minute, the kids will start laughing - quarrels and resentments are gone.

If the children know how to write, give them a piece of paper and a pen each and let everyone write down all their grievances and claims against the “offender” (if they don’t know how to write, let them draw). After that, read everything written together, discuss it, and then tear the sheet or burn it, you can even scatter the ashes. That's it, there is no more resentment, we play on!

Some educators recommend two more methods:

Take the children by the hands and stand in a circle. And let everyone turn his head to the one standing next to him and say: “Do not be angry, smile. I love you!"
Put one child on a chair or armchair, the rest take turns saying good words to him.

Based on my experience with babies, I can say that these two methods cannot always reconcile children. Not every offended child (who still has tears in his eyes) will want to talk good words. Some babies just turn away and remain silent.
In this case, it is best to help Mirilki for children preschool age .
Tell the crumbs that mirilki are such small funny poems that help to put up with friends. And if you also follow a certain ritual of reconciliation: grapple with your little fingers, clap your hands or send an air kiss and at the same time say funny words 5-10 times, then the insult will go away instantly.

There are 30 myriloks in our Card Index. After downloading and reading, choose for yourself 5 or 7 puzzles that you and your baby will like the most, and learn them by heart. You can also print these rhymes and take them with you for a walk or playground. At the right time, a card with a myrilka will always be at hand.

Moms - needlewomen can knit or sew a special soft toy mirilka. It can be a sun, mittens, a heart, even a simple piece of fabric that plays the role of a reconciliation rug. The kids touch the pillow with their hand or stand with their feet on the rug and say the rhymes of myrilka together several times.

Words of peace for preschool children are very simple, but they teach kindness, fidelity, devotion, mutual understanding, tolerance for other people's weaknesses and shortcomings, and, of course, friendship.

Having reconciled in this way, the kids are happy to play together again!

CARD FILE MIRILOK

Teacher-psychologist of the 1st category:

Roslova K.A.

Mirilki are small

funny rhymes,

which children usually pronounce

after a quarrel or resentment in order to

to reconcile.

Make peace, make peace
Fight no more.
If you fight
I will bite.

And biting - nothing to do with it,
Let's fight with bricks.
We don't need a brick
Let's make friends with you!

Stop being angry with us
Have fun all around!
Hurry, let's make up:
-You are my friend!
- And you're my friend!
We will forget all insults
And we will be friends as before

To make the sun smile
We tried to warm you and me,
You just need to get better
And put up with us soon!

Finger for a finger
We'll take it tight
Used to fight
And now for nothing.

Let's make peace with you
And share everything.
And who will not reconcile,
We will not deal with that.

I make peace, I make peace, I make peace.

And I don't fight anymore

Well, if I fight

I'll be in a dirty puddle

How to swear and tease
It's better for us to put up with you!
It is very boring to live in a quarrel,
Therefore, let's be friends!

The sun will come out from behind the clouds

A warm ray will warm.
And we can't fight

Because we are friends!

Let's all make peace

share toys

And who will not reconcile

Let's not deal with that!

Stop being angry with us

Hurry, let's make up:

You are my friend!

And I'm your friend!

We will forget all insults

And we will be friends with you!

Once - make peace! Two - make peace!

And don't fight me!

Three - they asked for forgiveness!

At four - everything is forgotten!

Five! - you can not be inflated:

We are now friends again!

Vera Schroeder (Shepel)

The ball is bouncing around!

We forgive everything to each other!

An agreement between us:

We are friends without fights and quarrels!

Vera Schroeder (Shepel)

Give me your little finger,

Hook it to mine.

One, two, three, four, five,

We are friends with you again!

A quarrel has crept up on you and me.

We need to drive her away.

We'll take our fingers

One, two, three, four, five,

We became friends again.

We won't fight anymore!

And all the insults - forget!

Forgive me now!

Smile and don't be sad!

Peace - love - candy!

No more quarrels!

Vera Schroeder (Shepel)

Finger for a finger

Finger for a finger
We'll take it tight
Used to fight
And now for nothing.

Don't fight

Don't fight, don't fight
Well, make up quickly!

Make peace, make peace

Make peace, make peace, make peace
And fight no more.
And if you fight
Then I will bite.
And we can't bite
Because we are friends!

We won't quarrel

We will not quarrel.
We will be friends
Let's not forget the oath
As long as we live!

stop being angry

Stop being angry with us
Hurry, let's make up:
- You are my friend!
And I'm your friend!
We will forget all insults
And be friends, as before!

Let's all make peace

Let's all make peace
Share toys.
And who will not reconcile -
Let's not deal with that!

Let's be friends

How to swear and tease
It's better for us to put up with you!
It is very boring to live in a quarrel,
Therefore, let's be friends!

To make the sun smile
We tried to warm you and me,
You just need to get better
And put up with us soon!

warm ray

The sun will come out from behind the clouds
A warm ray will warm us.
And we can't fight
Because we are friends.

Girlfriends

Let's not quarrel girlfriends
We are so sad without a friend!

Friendly oath

The poems that are uttered in the process of reconciliation have an unusual form of some kind of oath, where boys and girls promise each other to find mutual understanding and remain friends forever. During the pronunciation, the children cross their little fingers, and the third person "breaks" them. So reconciliations become special rules for those who have reconciled.

Poems teach friendship. The lines contain an important meaning of fidelity and goodness. They are brought up to never betray their comrades.

Equality is the goal of these verses and friendship in general. All are equal: if one for all, then all for one. There are no those who are worse and those who are better. In a dispute, there is no distinction between a loser and a winner. Find the simplest compromise without special conditions, which is easily accepted by everyone on a general basis. The question does not arise at all: why so? It just doesn't make sense.

The value of friendship in myrilka verses is achieved by raising moral human values. Perhaps the children will not understand them, but they will certainly learn. Sincerity in relationships is often compared to the warmth of the sun, a bunny or ladybug. Such things in childhood serve as important landmarks of immaculate kindness. For adults, it plays an important role in education. Poems teach tolerance for other people's shortcomings, which gives rise to the phenomenon of tolerance.

Having reconciled, satisfied kids will gladly go together to play and have fun. It's so boring to be alone. The sadness of separation between friends is described in poetry as something bad - something that needs to be corrected.

It's easy to put up

Sometimes it is so difficult to get offended children to come to each other and make peace. To do this, they need to step over stubborn pride and say difficult sentences. Here come to the aid mirilki. A simple rhyme, as well as easy-to-understand words, will quickly be remembered by kids and will always serve as a reason to find mutual language with peers.

To do this, help the children memorize one or two of these quatrains. Short lines will not be forgotten, and it will not be necessary to remind the kids of the right words after each quarrel.

adult trouble

Often quarrels happen with parents, loved ones, caregivers and other adults. They arise in case of disobedience of the child or his bad behavior, or maybe just very excited parents broke down and yelled rudely. You should not make a big problem out of this, any conflicts with children can also be resolved. Mirilki, uttered by an adult or the child himself, will help to forget the negative moments and wash away resentment. Thanks to a pleasant moment of reconciliation, they will teach you to obey your elders, respect and love them.

Children's rhymes are remembered for many years. They do not disappear anywhere with the change of generations, because they are remembered for a lifetime, and then passed on to future children.