A magical bond between twins. The twin of the twin feels from afar…. Study of the mental connection of twins

Sasha or Natasha

At full speed, the minibus crashed into the car in front. From a sharp blow, passengers were scattered around the cabin, someone groaned in pain ...

Natasha felt the salty taste of blood in her mouth, and at the same moment the mobile phone rang. Feeling the broken lip, the girl answered the call. "Are you okay?" Sasha's excited voice rang out from the receiver. "Everything is fine, where did you get the idea ..." - trying to suppress the trembling in her voice, Natasha answered her sister.

A few minutes before the accident, the Moguchev sisters had just finished talking on the phone. Why she suddenly decided to dial her sister's number again at that very moment, Sasha still cannot explain. She says that she suddenly felt something was wrong. And this happens to twins all the time.

“At the age of three, Sasha almost swallowed a thermometer,” says Natasha. - I don’t remember this, but my mother says that for no reason I threw a terrible tantrum. When my parents ran up to us at my cry, my sister had already begun to gnaw at the glass. It is terrible to think what could have happened if she had eaten mercury.

In all their lives, they never parted from each other for more than three days. Together we went to school and college, danced and went on vacation. Even the girls answer phone calls together.

- For a very long time we could not choose which specialty to enter. But the main criterion was to study together, - says Natasha.

As a result, the girls entered the Rostov Institute of Service and Tourism to learn how to sew.

“Despite the fact that we are very different in character, both of us wanted to have a creative specialty,” the sisters explain. - Now we practically do not work by profession, we sew only for each other and very rarely.

Two halves

If I confess that I have a headache, Inna will immediately feel bad. Therefore, we have an agreement: never talk about ailments, ”Rostovite Alina Polovinkina talks about her twin sister.

“In childhood, like all children, we were ill in turn: first I would catch a cold, then she would sniffle,” she continues. - And now we are unwell at the same time: even at a distance we feel each other's illnesses.

The mysterious connection between Alina and Inna, which they first felt in early childhood, becomes stronger over the years. A long time ago, when there were no cell phones yet, being apart, the sisters could easily find each other in the most unexpected places. Once, little Alina, without asking, went out of town to pick mushrooms. Parents were looking for the girl all day until Inna brought them to the forest.

The sisters rarely go shopping together, but manage to accidentally buy the same things. When we were teenagers, we even fell in love with the same guys. If Inna was embarrassed to invite boys on dates, Alina did it for her: you can’t tell sisters on the phone at all.

Despite the resemblance, the girls are directly opposite in temperament. Inna is an extrovert, loves communication and big companies, in their pair she is a lighter. Alina is more organized and calm. However, this difference did not prevent the girls from choosing the same profession. They both began to be interested in psychology at school: they wanted to learn to understand what was going on in a person’s head and, perhaps, to understand themselves.

- It used to be very hard for us, - Alina Polovinkina admits. - At one time I could not identify myself with myself and even in a mirror image I saw my sister, and not myself. In our childhood memories, the edges are completely erased: we don’t remember which of us specifically had these or those cases. Now this connection has acquired a more emotional and intellectual character. There is no one closer to each other than ourselves, and words are not even needed for communication. We can just sit side by side, be silent and fully feel each other's thoughts and emotions.

Can't be scientifically explained

Elena Vorobyova, Doctor of Psychology, Professor of the Department of Psychophysiology and Clinical Psychology, SFU:

- A curious relationship between twins does exist, but it has not yet been studied, and there are hardly any methods by which this phenomenon can be investigated. During the period of embryogenesis, i.e. from the moment of conception to birth, they are in the same shell, have a common circle of blood circulation and both experience the same emotions of the mother. Of course, this period has a huge impact on their future life. Perhaps this is the secret of an unusual connection, but we cannot unravel its nature and check with which organs the twins feel each other.

But similar tastes in clothes or sympathy for a certain type of men and women is easily explained. Monozygotic twins have one hundred percent the same set of genes, i.e. they are biologically predisposed to behave in the same way in certain situations. In addition, the general environment in which they grow has a great influence. Born at the same time, they are raised in the same family, go to the same school, and are in the same social circle.

For a long time, the twins literally feel like one person. They dress the same, do everything together and attract attention as a couple, not separately. Therefore, many of them find it difficult to identify themselves as a person and start their own family. To avoid this, it is necessary to separate the spheres of communication of the twins while they are still small. If one child, for example, wants to play the piano, it is better to give the other to drawing.

On the Don they know how to give birth to twins

The village of Denisovka in the Rostov region is another phenomenon associated with twins. The unique village breaks all records: every year twins are born here. Now in a small village for 500 people there are 11 pairs of twins and twins

There is also a unique place in Ukraine. In the village of Velyka Kopan, Transcarpathian region, 54 pairs of twins were born in 50 years. Water from a healing spring allegedly helps villagers conceive twins

But in a similar baby boom in the Indian village of Kandallur, locals blame the god Rama, who had twin children. Over the past half century alone, 70 pairs of twins have been born here.

Those who were interested in the topic of twins or twins know how medicine explains “technically” this miracle of birth. This is the simultaneous maturation of a pair of eggs.

There is also the option of fertilization of one egg by two spermatozoa. These options are still under study. But what's really going on in spiritual world before the birth of such people?

The topic of this reincarnation research was my interest in the topic of twins and twins, from a spiritual point of view.

Are twins really one soul in two bodies or that ?

A feature of the sessions was that the people I invited did not know the topic of the study. “So that they don’t have time to mentally prepare,” I joked.

Clients and I explored the same questions:

• details of location and time of incarnation,
• major life milestones
• an example of the ability to feel each other,
• some comical and funny case from the incarnation,
• planning the incarnation in the body of a twin,

All texts of reincarnation dives are given in an abbreviated form, but with full preservation of the original meaning.

1. Triplet girls, Caucasus, early 18th century

The girl Zulfiya was born in the mountains of Armenia, she has an oriental face, black eyes and dark skin. The environment was appropriate for the place, her mother in local traditions, with her head covered.

The girl had two sisters - her absolute copies. The parents were very proud of their triplets.

She felt a very close connection with her sisters. They all felt each other from a distance. One day one of them ran away to the edge of the village and got lost in the mountains.

Our heroine Zulfiya somehow felt the light of the presence of her lost sister. She somehow "knew" where she was. With the help of Zulfiya, they quickly found their sister, the girls grabbed their hands and ran ...

In their life there were any number of comic cases.

The triplets were constantly confused, and dad marked them with ribbons. So they constantly entertained the inhabitants of the village, fooling everyone with their similarity. But the girls were not malicious.

During intrauterine development, children felt like one whole. There was a feeling that The soul is one and wanted to be upset.

Such an unusual incarnation enriches the Soul with energies.

Spiritual Mentors suggested that I should live even in different regions. And here in this story one Soul lives in three different bodies.

This is a completely different experience, as opposed to incarnation in different times or in different places.

The soul through such an incarnation accumulates and enhances its spiritual potential.

Although when planning such a life by the Soul, she was offered another option to choose from: a gypsy nomadic family in the southeast of Europe. There would have been more extreme moments of life, which at that moment the Soul did not want.

2. Twin girls, France-Britain, late 18th century

This Soul experience has been explored through the Akashic Records - a repository of information about all human experience, events, past lives.

In the incarnations of twins and twins, there are different stories: sometimes different Souls agree to come to this World together, while such Souls can be from one group of Souls.

Although such Souls are very similar in terms of energy-vibration, and very similar in their purpose, they cannot meet. Most likely, they will never intersect.

We were told that any Soul can incarnate in this way, if such an experience is desired.

The mentors suggested watching one example of male incarnation twins without interfering with that experience. The client and I, of course, agreed!

The contract was concluded by two Souls, who in the previous incarnation were a love couple, and now they did not want to part.

Now they are two boys, outwardly exactly the same. Two twin brothers feel and internally hear each other. Time passes, gaining momentum, these boys are growing .. Now they are 18 years old ...

All the comic episodes of that incarnation are associated with confusion in childhood, and in youth with dating girls. The brothers are so similar that others cannot tell them apart.

Only at the energy level it is felt that they are different - in one twin, the Soul is more “whole and healthy” than in the second. Once in his field, the second brother begins to recover.

Their departure from life occurred at different times - for one brother in his youth, for the other at an advanced age.

When one Soul lived according to the plan, having received the desired rate of energy charge, it decided that it was no longer necessary to live the entire further joint path. It was the choice of the Soul itself.

Spiritual Guides accompanied the viewing with an explanation that on the earthly plane, the death of a child for parents and the environment is always a great grief and regret. But there is a higher meaning in everything, which can only be understood from the position of “viewing from above”:

The soul of the child may leave early to give the parent the experience of compassion.

If there are no feelings in the family, then the Souls take on such teaching spiritual task, ambiguous by earthly standards.

All such issues are resolved at the Divine level.

4. Twin boys, Spain, early 19th century

This experience of the Soul in a male incarnation in twins was associated with a rather tragic story.

… A man was writing something with a pencil in his office, by the light of a lamp on the table. In another episode, he, alone again, stood on a sheer cliff, a sultry breeze fanned his clothes ...

He had a brother with whom something happened. One of the twins died suddenly, in his youth, passed away at the age of 14-15.

In the joint period of their life, in a twin incarnation, they communicated with a brother, like a whole always energetically feeling each other. And this time, at the very moment of leaving, he was the first to find his brother.

We decided not to plunge into the tragedy of that story in order to continue our research on our goal, when both brothers were still together.

Between them there was invisible connection They are twins, and are very similar to each other.

There was a moment when one saved the other in a moment of danger.

While still a baby who could not talk, he began to pull his mother, as if something had happened. The brother's foot fell into the hole, and he would not have been found if not for the foreboding of his twin.

A comical incident came to mind very vividly during my studies, at the exam. There was some kind of exam, one twin brother was sitting in the hall of the department, the second brother was outside the door, the teacher walked with his hands behind his back ...

One brother took the exam twice - for himself and another!

And something funny about a girl. They met the same girl, and she did not immediately understand that they were different people. She did not even know that she was communicating with the twins, that was such a miracle.

How did such an extraordinary life go when our character lived his life alone?

He became either a writer or a poet. He always had the feeling that the twin brother who died sends him thoughts and creative ideas.

Exploring on a subtle plane, the answer came that it was a division of one Soul.

At that time, the Soul needed to know two experiences - experience of life and experience of death.

How to gain a deeper understanding of yourself

All clients were greatly impressed by the diving sessions and remained in their thoughtful awareness.

As a result of these four research sessions, an additional, the deep meaning of the birth of twins. More options for choosing the Soul in the piggy bank of the “card of incarnations” have been added.

Just imagine what opportunities for knowledge open up for us after studying at the Institute of Reincarnation, and what unusual research can be done on a wide variety of topics.

This skill greatly expands the picture of the World for both clients and consultants, provides new opportunities for personal growth.

In addition, our clients receive a lot of unexpected things about themselves and their inner world from such thematic immersions.

Twins and twins: features of development and education.

All parents of twins believe that they have won a double prize from fate, and they are absolutely right: for the patient nine-month wait for a miracle, mom and dad are doubly rewarded: not one, but two children at once!

The children themselves find themselves in a completely exceptional situation: they will have an absolutely unique experience - to live life accompanied by a companion. It is known that the twin bond is a bond no less strong than those that bind mother and child. The life of the crumbs began in close proximity to each other, and then - day after day - they are not separated for a minute.

Strictly speaking, twins - the concept is not entirely accurate. Twins can be mono- and dizygotic twins, depending on whether the babies developed from one or two maternal eggs. In the first case, children are always of the same sex: after all, in the genetic sense, they are exact copies of each other. In the second case, twins can be either of the same or different sex, and the similarity between them is no greater than between siblings born at different times: they only have 40 to 60% of their genes.

Monozygotic twins.

The monozygotic twin pair causes increased attention from literally everyone: they are admired by grandmothers on the street and doctors in the clinic, kindergarten teachers and elementary school teachers. This is precisely the problem: those around are impressed by this picture of similarity, forgetting that in front of them are two different little men, each of which is a separate person. The stronger this admiration, the more children are subconsciously convinced that their main advantage is that there are two of them and they are so “same”.

When adults address their children by last name and in the plural, as if forgetting that each of them has their own name, the attitude that the twins are one whole is reinforced. Thus, the tendency of "psychological merging" of twins becomes extremely high.

In fact, the psychological bond between twins (twins) is extremely strong. Children are perfect for each other as a play partner. Such children develop almost simultaneously. They spend more time together than regular siblings with age gaps. In relations between children, mutual understanding and mutual assistance are clearly expressed. It would seem, what could be better? Parents received two wonderful children at once, and each of the children received not only loving parents but also a friend.

But not everything is as simple as it seems at first glance.
The more similar the twins are to each other, the less pronounced the need for contact with others. For example, children at the age of three communicate perfectly in their own language, which they understand and do not seek to communicate with others. Communicating with his adored "Alter ego" the child feels great. Children have their own games understandable to both of them. In this case, the twins exclude interest in other children. To the twins, other children of the same age seem incomprehensible and it becomes unclear why they are so different from them. Often, each of the twins from time to time responds to both names in turn, not realizing that he owns only one name. As a result, the so-called “twin situation” arises, when children create, as it were, their own “microcosm” where outsiders are not allowed, identify themselves with each other and consider themselves to be a single whole.

Geminis develop in a very peculiar way. Often one of the couple starts to contact others earlier and begins to express desires for both: “We are hungry”, “We need to buy a new car” ... etc. At the same time, the other is better at reading. Thus, the skills and abilities that an ordinary child masters are distributed in half in a twin pair. Thereby strengthening the bond between children. It turns out that one complements the second, and each of them is completely helpless separately from the other.

dizygotic twins.

Dizygotic or fraternal twins are children that develop from different maternal eggs. There can be both same-sex and different-sex children, there are children who are completely different or, on the contrary, insanely similar. Such children feel their difference from a brother or sister, realize their difference from each other. However, there remains a strong relationship. Relations in such a pair are much closer than between brothers and sisters who have a difference in age.
Such children spend their entire childhood hand in hand. They begin to move slightly apart from each other adolescence when girls begin to outpace boys in their development. And that this phenomenon is temporary.

Three problems parents of twins face:

1) The most pronounced in the twin pair is expressedrivalry problem. The cause of this problem goes back to early childhood, during the period of constant "comparison" of children. Deep down, children want to be different from each other, therefore, under the condition of “equalization”, they can rebel. Or maybe the other side of the rivalry: the struggle for justice - the need to have everything the same and the same amount as the other twin. One will forgive drinking, another immediately comes running; one found a bump - the second "woe" and panic if there were no more bumps nearby. How to act in such situations? Try to explain to the children that it is better not to repeat one after another, but to listen to their own desires. To do this, it is necessary to clarify with the child about his true feeling, for example: “Artem, ask for a drink if you really want to drink, and not because your brother (sister) asks for water.” Do not address both children at once: “Are you hungry?” It is necessary to address the question to each child: “Arte, are you hungry? Are you Sasha? Who should buy a bun? And who wants ice cream? Help your children make different decisions.

2) The Problem of Jealousyin a twin pair occupies no less place than the problem of rivalry. In families where this problem is acute, any kind of competition is extremely contraindicated. This also applies to eating (“Who will be the first to eat porridge?”), And putting things in order (“Who will collect toys faster and more?”), And the ability to dress (“Who will get ready for a walk faster?”), And the speed of doing homework ( “Who will read the story faster?”, “Who will complete the exercise faster?”), etc. The losing twin will feel hurt, hurt, frustrated for the rest of the day. The resentment of “losing” can last longer. The solution to the problem may be to involve both twins in "partner" games that develop the imagination, help to realize positive sides cooperation.

3) The issue of primacystands, in families raising twins (twins), especially brightly. Each of the couple or one twin tries to take a "leading", "dominant" position - to be the first in everything! For children, it turns out to be fundamentally important whose name was spoken first, and the one of the children whose name was presented last will be offended to the core. What should parents do? First of all, communicate with your children as individuals. It’s worth just talking to the children that it doesn’t matter which name is presented first, and it’s ugly to be offended. It is most significant for parents to understand the reason for such behavior, where did the desire to “stand out” come from? Perhaps children feel a lack of parental attention and thus try to attract it. Perhaps the children simply do not have enough time that their parents spend with them.

In front of the twins' parents not an easy task. They will have to educate a personality in each child, while not breaking or breaking the "twin" connection. The main "psychological step" that parents need to take is to get away from comparing twins to each other. There can't be two identical people! And even more so, it is worth forgetting about the phrase: "Gemini is one creature in two copies." Moms and dads should firmly understand that despite the fact that they had twins, their children are different people, and each of them should be considered separately.

“Twin women in hospitals hundreds of kilometers apart gave birth to daughters at the same time”, “Twins got into an accident. One lost an eye; after the incident, the same eye began to ache and twitch in the other. Such headlines can always be found in the yellow press. But are they true? Do they mean that there is actually an invisible connection between the twins? Do the twins have the ability to feel each other?

Rice. Can twins feel each other?

Twins are born in one of 80 families. They spend more time with each other than with other children in the same family, if any, fight less and love each other more. The death of one greatly affects the life of another.

Exist real story about two women who were twins but were separated from each other as children. Both of them married lawyers, each named Steve. The sisters had the same habits, hobbies and much more - from favorite foods to similar thoughts. How else can this be explained, if not by the connection of twins?

A bunch of books have been written about all this, in which “documentary” facts of the existence of a connection between twins are given. However, this also exists among ordinary brothers or sisters. Only no one investigates these connections, and if someone is struck by the similarity of their biography, it is always considered a coincidence, and nothing else.

In fact, if you take a closer look at all cases of communication between twins, it becomes clear that there is no mysticism here. Is it such a miracle if women have husbands named the same, and they are both lawyers?

An important factor is that twins have similar DNA. This means that they may have great similarities. In other words, they suffer from the same diseases. If one of the twins dies of a heart attack, the same can happen to the other. But acquired heart disease does not appear under the influence of genetic causes, but because of an unhealthy lifestyle, poor eating habits and a sedentary lifestyle.

There are about 100 million twins in the world. But there are only a few hundred stories of similarities in their lives. This means that 99 percent of them have never had anything unusual in their lives. In general, scientists have noticed that they begin to talk about relationships between twins only when something bad happens to them.

Study of the mental connection of twins

A study was conducted in England, the purpose of which was to determine: are twins capable of transmitting thoughts to each other at a distance? One of them was given the task to choose a picture from the proposed ones and fix it in their minds. At this time, the second, who was in a completely different room, was asked to guess what the first one was up to or thought of. The same was proposed to be done not for twins, but for close relatives. The twins guessed the other half of the time, and everyone else only 25% of the time.

After the first experiment, a second one was carried out. During it, the subjects were also kept in different rooms. One had to write the number on a piece of paper, which he then passed to the researcher. At the same time, a relative sitting in another room had to guess what number was written. Neither the twins, nor just siblings, were able to cope with this task.

Thus, there is no way to answer the question of whether there is any connection between the twins or not. Rather, any similarities can be explained by habits, the same state of health and other family ties, and nothing else.

Twins as a phenomenon are of great interest to science. Twins are rare in the Western world. Approximately every 80th birth is the result of multiple pregnancy. In total, there are about 100 million people on earth who have an identical brother or sister. If you are lucky enough to meet such a couple on the street, they will surely attract your attention. Indeed, there is something magical and otherworldly in this amazing symmetry. Especially when you consider that modern culture sings of individualism. How do they live in this cruel world?

They have a lot in common

It seems that the same appearance gives us the right to endow these people with the same character traits. We think that they understand each other perfectly and feel with a sixth sense when a brother or sister is in danger. They almost never quarrel and are very devoted to each other. We have read many times that twins have the same habits, the same hobbies, love the same food. Everything should be the same for them: clothes, cars and even corns on their fingers. If one of them is allergic to some product, then the second one will definitely rush to “support” his brother. They themselves are confident that they can predict the thoughts and anticipate the actions of each other.

Scientists debunk persistent myth about twins

In fact, the presence of an invisible connection between the twins is just beautiful fairy tale in which our heroes themselves sacredly believed. According to scientists, they feel each other's pain no more sharply than ordinary brothers and sisters who were born several years apart. The same applies to the ability to read or guess each other's thoughts. It seems that the husband and wife, who have lived together for 10 years, will also be able to boast of some telepathic techniques. No scientific study has yet confirmed the existence of a strong invisible bond between twins. In one British experiment, twins were tested on how well they knew each other. It turned out that they know only 25 percent of information about each other - exactly as much as other brothers and sisters.

How does having a twin affect longevity?

However, the issues of studying the invisible connection between twins are far from the only aspect that excites scientists. There is an opinion that people born as a result of multiple pregnancies live longer than their "single" peers. However, there are some nuances here too. For example, twins live on average less than twins, and male couples live longer than females. Let's try to figure out why this happens.

Data provided by the oldest database

During the experiment, archival data of almost 3,000 twins and twins born in Denmark were studied. The research activity was carried out by the staff of the University of Washington in Seattle. During the experiment, scientists compared the life expectancy of Danes born between 1870 and 1900. The data was kindly provided by the local Twin Registry. It is worth noting that this database is one of the oldest on the planet.

Breakdown by category

Two thirds of the participants in the experiment were twins, one third were identical twins. Life expectancy was compared with the corresponding statistical indicators of those years. The indicators of male and female pairs were also considered separately. Danish women in the late 19th century lived to an average of 58 years. If the lady had a twin sister, this gave her a chance to live three years more. But the rates of female pairs of twins were the highest - 63 years. Male life expectancy was noticeably less - 45 years. But in this category, scientists found a similar relationship. Average duration twin men's lives were 6 percent higher. In addition, the researchers have compiled complete picture regarding the causes of death (including from alcoholism or as a result of an accident.)

"Protection of the other half"

According to scientists, the genetic factor in this matter fades into the background. The longevity of twins is due to a social aspect known as "protecting the other half." This also applies to couples who seek to maintain each other's health and warn partners against reckless actions. A caring spouse (or caring twin) takes on the role of guardian.

For example, women in marriage monitor the proper nutrition of their husbands, send them to the doctor in case of urgent need, try to prevent their spouse from drinking large amounts of alcohol. According to scientists, the same principle works within pairs of twins, where one of them takes on the role of guardian. Close people encourage each other to give up bad habits and often become companions when it comes to sports training.

It supports the twins emotionally

A 2014 study found that married men tend to live longer than singles. There are many benefits to this behavior. In addition to mutual control, twins (or spouses) feel emotional support. If they happen life problem they know where to go to seek advice and comfort. A close emotional connection can relieve stress, anxiety, and even alleviate depression. Who will be the first to come to the aid of one of the twins during a serious illness? Of course, his other half. Well, who will lend money without notations and moralizing? The answer suggests itself.

It works like a reliable braking system

If we consider the situation on a gender basis, then men are in a more advantageous situation due to the presence of a twin brother. And in this case, the answer lies in psychology, more precisely in behavioral problems. Single men often get involved in risky scams and act impulsively. A twin brother can be compared to having a reliable braking system when driving on a dangerous route. As you can see, close social interaction is important in many aspects of human existence.