Why do men leave and come back? How long does it take for husbands to return How long does it take for exes to return

How often, looking back, we state that a personal tragedy followed one of those scenarios that, years later, even seem beaten to us. One of them is as old as the world: men return to the former.

He is gone, and in an instant a wave of resentment makes him hateful. Then, for some reason, only good things were remembered, but vague flashes of desire for revenge flashed in my soul. Later, the hatred also passed, the pain and longing for the beloved remained. The bad has disappeared from your memory, and it seems to you that such wonderful moments as with him will never happen again. You begin to blame yourself and continue to wait for him, maybe because you just got used to waiting. Men who appear in your life do not pass the test for "like him." And you do not let happiness into your life, perhaps quite consciously. Maybe you are trying to get it back, but they have not been successful so far.

And finally, you feel that life begins to bring joy. You begin to be inspired by the looks of strangers, you spread your wings. You meet a new man. You hear the familiar notes of love in the heart. And suddenly he appears...

Why do men return to the former, and why their psychology is such that they choose the most inopportune moment for this. As in the song: "I will stop waiting for you, and you will come ... all of a sudden."

Why do men always come back?

Well, first, let's start with what is not always. But often. First you need to understand why men leave us, and only then - why they come back.

Perhaps your relationship reaches the point where he stops feeling like a man. The way he was for you at the dawn of a relationship. You are no longer admired (and perhaps already annoyed) by his sense of humor, you perceive him as a proper appendage in your life. You don't try to look like you just stepped out of a beauty salon in front of him. And then there is the one who is thrilled by his jokes, the one who is always cheerful and well-groomed. A man is passionate, he feels needed, loved. And he goes to where he is welcome, where life is not overshadowed by scandals and everyday life.

After what time men return in this case. As a rule, as soon as the bouquet and candy period ends with a new passion. When he finds that his jokes are no longer so funny, and scandals happen more and more often. Why is this happening? Because we tend to choose a certain type of people according to our worldview. And the former begins to remember you, and his memories are more often colored in warm colors. Then, having rushed about, the man often returns to the family.

In what other cases do our men return. Let's look at an example.

Perhaps you have sacrificed yourself on the altar of the family. She took care of her husband like a small child. I forgot about myself. In such cases, a man is tempted to behave like Small child. Take what is not allowed. To brush aside annoying, in their opinion, hyperprotection. And then the husband left. Because he is independent. Needless to say, after how many men return in such a scenario. Of course, as soon as they feel that they do not have enough warmth and care. Few women will give so much care at the dawn of a relationship. First, the child went to evil, to prove that he is an adult, and was looking for a woman who would perceive him that way. Secondly, women, as a rule, first look for care from their soulmate.

It happens, of course, that a man is overwhelmed by passion or love. You were an example of the best wife in the world, and now you are left with nothing. How often do men return to ideal wives? Yes. But, unfortunately, their ideality is sometimes a deterrent. Many begin to humiliate their wife, trying to prove to the whole world and to themselves that she has more strength and power. Is it worth it to accept such a man if he returns to the family, it's up to you ...

We must move forward, not look back.

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How long does it take for husbands to return?
after divorce? question to those to whom they returned. I heard statistics that in a year .. Love
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How long did it take for your ex to return to you if he left you?

quarreled, parted, and now I don’t know if he will return or not and how to behave if he returns.

Do you really need him?

as soon as he quit, he called and asked how he got there))) the next day they already communicated normally, after a month they met, she herself was in shock)

Well come back, then they come back) Some don't. I love. will pass) You will love another) How old are you?

yes we are both adults i am 32, he is 37

Nifiga yourself)))) Then the probability of returning is high)

Yes, it’s not a fact that he will return, it depends on the situation, the reason for the breakup. If he left because the feelings have passed, then he most likely will not return, and if the quarrel is likely to cool down, get bored and return. Damn the same situations do not happen.

At this age, too lazy to look for a new one) Pushing around, pushing around and crawling back) These are young dragonflies that will jump further)))

What's the difference after how long he will return or not return. Do you need such a relationship? It's just convenient for him to return to you until he finds another and she does not allow the man to behave like this with her. Personally, such a relationship would not suit me, a man should be a man, and not leave after every quarrel.

How long did it take for your ex to return to you if he left you?

no one ever gave up. dispersed with dignity and without problems. but the husbands either left their girlfriends for "twenty" times, then returned for the same amount. disgusting.

somewhere a month through 7-8. nothing good came out anyway

The main question is not how long it returns, but why. Usually they come back if you fuck him, and immediately disappear.

How long did it take for your ex to return to you if he left you?

And somehow he left me, well. More precisely, he didn’t quit, but quietly disappeared, the relationship simply went to “no.” So he showed up a few years later, or rather, he called, introduced himself, but for a long time I could not understand who even this was. And they used to have a really good time.

I love damn it, we met for a year, we got together, he was always the first to come in tears that he couldn’t live without me, and here again the quarrel is already more serious .. for three weeks now, no call or SMS, I’m tired of waiting and I probably can’t wait

"again the quarrel is already more serious" - it all depends on how serious the quarrel is. If the quarrel is petty, and this is how he “educates” you or educates himself, then he will return. And if the quarrel is serious, or too many small quarrels have accumulated, he may try to break it off for good.

Moreover, in previous quarrels, he always "came in tears", which means that you never repented of them, and he was looking for reconciliation. What he really thought at that moment - who knows, maybe he transgressed through himself and forgave you in the hope that you would change. But you have not changed, and he understood that this matter must be ended.

If you do not call him yourself, he will be convinced once again that you do not care about him, and this has always been the case.

If you call him. options are possible. He can wait for this call and then come running to you, or maybe he is already sleeping with another, and then he will not pick up the phone.

I threw it. But, he kept coming back until he died. Somewhere a year before his death, I realized that I love him very much and value our relationship very much (

I wanted to return a year after breaking up, having learned that I broke up with the second one. I didn't and I don't regret

He died 13 days after his DR, he was only 29!

I sympathize with you and his family. So always, when a person is not, you understand how dear he is.

He left me for another with glassy eyes and gloating. I doubt he will be back soon. But deep down I don't mind. There is my fault too.

After 2.5 months

came back to me after 3 weeks!

a month has passed .. not yet returned

Who initiated the breakup? Might be worth trying to get it back.

Sit and do not twitch - if yours - will return! In any case, the decision is his! Start running, in rare cases it turns out, you will understand that you need to start bending!

And even with "head held high!" stay.! Well, of course, it's up to you!

We met for 1.5 years. Threw me away. Came back 3 weeks after leaving. I left after a month. 7 years have passed and I have already returned)) have been together for 2 years now.

And he came back to me after 3 years. Didn't wait and didn't call. He left on his own, with the words "never again and for nothing!"

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How long does it take for husbands to return after divorce?

Did your husband come back to you after the divorce? Or after a long stay?

We divorced in July 2010, I couldn’t accept it for a long time, I went crazy, sobbed, called him, asked him to return, begged, he mocked me, and I hoped and waited. In September 2010 I met young man with whom we had an affair in the past, he was so caring, gentle, understanding, he surrounded me with love and I didn’t even notice that I fell in love with him unconsciously)))

I remembered less and less about my ex-husband, and then he began to call me himself (March 2011), I talked to him about nature, the weather, refused to meet with him, and then I said that I have a loved one.

Relationships of spouses after several years life together often get worse. Over time, people cool off towards each other. Less and less moments of joy. Spontaneous acts due to age are no longer relevant. You know each other by heart! It would seem where further? But there is one step to the "recovery" of your family, and it is given, alas, to few. The path to this "recovery" is long and thorny.

Someone has to trample on his ego, shatter dreams, ruin plans in the name of saving the hearth.

The classics say: "You cannot enter the same river twice." In a family, the opposite is often the case: he left - toiled - and returned. Either there is no limit to the patience of our women, or the husbands understand that they have fallen into the trap of their own illusions, and trudge with a confession to their native threshold. So why are they returning?

40-year-old Vitaly left the family a year ago, but all this time he maintained friendly relations with his wife.

Divorce is a difficult test for every person without exception. It is not enough to officially dissolve a marriage, you still need to learn how to live with a sense of loss. But, there are situations when a woman understands that divorce is a big mistake. Realizing this, she tries to return her husband to the family. Let's see if this is possible and how correct it is.

Before discussing how to return a husband to the family, let's answer the main question that worries those women who decide to return their husband.

When we fall in love and create a family, we hope that everything in life will be fine. We want to live for many years with a loved one in happiness, love and harmony. But... Divorce... Tears... Suffering... And suddenly he says he wants to return...

Imagine your real life situation. Remember what happened between you. There was something in your relationship that caused the breakup to take place.

In answering this question, do not deceive yourself.

Do not step on the same rake! Typology and psychology of divorce

It is clear that failures and failures in married life occur periodically in almost any family. However, when deciding whether to keep family relations. you should understand: do you want to live like this, how much longer everything can last, are you ready to endure such a situation if only the family is preserved.

If the family still breaks up, then it is necessary to analyze the psychological mistakes that the spouses made, together or separately.

The first wife is given by God - this is what popular rumor says, therefore the phenomenon of frequent return of husbands to their ex (and psychologists observe at least 30 percent of such cases) probably lies in this simple worldly truth. Why do men return to those from whom they recently ran headlong, recklessly slamming the door and saying: “I won’t cross your threshold again!”.

“I got married two years ago, by generally accepted standards - quite late, having managed to earn the glory of an old bachelor by the time of marriage.

"I'll be back ..." Such words can hardly be heard from a spouse who breaks family bonds. But sometimes marriages that were considered broken, rise from the ashes like a Phoenix. What is the reason for lost husbands to return to ex-wives? And why do marriage and divorce become a habit for some couples?

An old friend is better than two new ones ... As life shows, this folk wisdom also applies to family relationships.

Having a loved one is always good. Be it a wife, girlfriend, or just a friend. This is especially good when you live or just communicate for many years. Such cases are not uncommon.

It often happens that a man meets some girl, he really likes her, he is ready for a relationship with her, and she seems to be too. That is, both can already become a good couple, and nothing prevents them here.

Why, after breaking up with a woman, some men come back some time later and try to start all over again?

But first, a small digression. Many girls, especially those who are experiencing a breakup for the first time, for some reason are convinced that a man must return.

People often come to me and ask something like this: After what time ex-boyfriends return?».

Why do such questions arise? Oddly enough, this is mainly a consequence of trying to console the girl that the guy left. Older or “more experienced” friends try to alleviate the fate of the girl and say something like: “Don't be upset, he won't go anywhere. As he left, he will come back”, “All men return”, etc.

The girl who first encountered is ready to believe in anything. Therefore, she begins to wait for her boyfriend to return to her again. Days, weeks, months pass, and he does not return. After that, the girl frantically searches for information on the Internet to find out "the exact or approximate dates for the return of her ex-boyfriend."

But she does not understand the naivety of her question, because according to statistics, such returns are more exceptions than the rule, and they are very rare.

Having not found an answer, the girl continues to wait, depriving herself of the opportunity to move on and build new relationships. It is sad.

Let's finish the digression and return to the topic of the article.

Let's get to the answer to the question "Why do ex-boyfriends come back?" in a business sense. Any romantic relationship is a kind of contract, drawn up on some specific basis: sexual, financial, emotional, or a combination of all of the above. Failure to fulfill the obligations of one of the parties leads to the termination of the contract. And although there are many exceptions, statistically such breakups are more common in the early stages of a relationship.

For a variety of reasons, it is mostly the woman who initiates the breakup. If a woman is sure that her self-esteem is infringed on the part of a man (treason, lies, etc. on the part of a man), then at the initial stage of the relationship, she, as a rule, does not forgive this. Therefore, it acts as an initiating party to "terminate the deal." Thus, the relationship ends abruptly and the man is told (in no uncertain terms) that he must leave. After such a gap, the chances of a man returning are the highest.

If the initiator of the gap was a man, then the chances of his independent return are almost zero. And although I know, as well as the successful results of its use, it requires considerable effort on the part of the woman and remarkable determination.

And now the million dollar question: Why, after such a breakup, some men come back and try to start a relationship with a woman again?

Why did HE come back and what to do about it?

Let's understand the reasons and what to do if the former returned? Men learn from their mistakes, but for the most part, they do not learn as quickly as women. They return to try again, but after they have understood something. I must say that such comebacks rarely end well. But the main question still remains - why are they coming back? There are several explanations for this phenomenon:

1Unforgettable sex. No man is able to refuse good sex. If he was fine with a woman physically, this can serve as a very serious incentive to return.

It all depends on whether a woman can separate the physiology from the emotional and moral aspects, which she will miss as much as at the first attempt?

2Rethinking behavior. When it comes to relationships, most men learn experientially (from experience). After making enough mistakes, they may eventually change some aspects of their behavior and try to "get back to basics", but already more prepared. If a man has made a lot of mistakes in a relationship, but is not indifferent to a woman and feels some kind of connection with her, he is quite capable of trying to return to the “second round”.

It should be noted that the dynamics of the relationship, as a rule, will remain the same as it was in the first attempt. After all, if you take something out of the fridge and find it has gone bad, you throw it away. I hope you don't have the idea of returning it to the refrigerator in the hope that it will be fresh tomorrow? And in this case, it’s about the same - it’s still better to “throw away”.

3He is alone again. Men left alone again, as a rule, try to reconnect with their former girlfriends. The reasons may be different, but they are all basically already mentioned above. It usually starts with an innocent phone call, text message or email. With the help of these simple tricks, a man “checks the water” and tries to determine, by the reaction of a woman, something “shines” for him or “does not shine”.

While some repeat relationships can work out well, women need to be very careful when rekindling an old romance. If the man really hasn't changed radically, you run the risk of picking up where you left off. Always remember what made your relationship fail the first time.

FROM THE AUTHOR: My responses in the comments are the opinion of a private individual, and not the recommendation of a specialist. I try to answer everyone without exception, but unfortunately I don’t physically have time to study long stories, analyze them, ask questions about them and then answer in detail, and I also don’t have the opportunity to accompany your situations, because this requires a huge amount of free time, and I have very little of it.

In this regard, I kindly ask you to ask specific questions on the topic of the article, do not expect that I will advise in the comments or accompany your situation.

Of course, you can ignore my request (which many do), but in this case, be prepared for the fact that I may not answer you. This is not a matter of principle, but exclusively of time and my physical capabilities. Don't be offended.

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It is not easy, and the decision does not come in one hour. Let even the surrounding relatives and acquaintances get divorced. It is much more painful for a woman when her husband decides to take this step. On a subconscious level, she cannot come to terms with the fact that after five to ten years of marriage she turns out to be unnecessary to a loved one, the father of her children. And it's a shame, after many years of living together, to remain alone. With children, problems (including material ones). With her misfortune, she turns to her friends, relatives. And all together they consult, think and discuss a sore subject, whether husbands return after a divorce. And it is concluded that there is no single answer.

Features of female psychology

If the spouse herself put the missus out the door, then on a subconscious level she expects that he will certainly upholster the threshold with bouquets of flowers and a bunch of gifts. And at the same time, there is still uncertainty about the return of the spouse. But it depends on how happy he was with her. And will he be able to find the same happiness with another. It is possible that depression will cover a woman, and it is impossible to predict how long she will be in this state. But time heals and the wound heals.

Psychologists have noticed that the ex-wife at first begins to take care of herself much more often than during the years of marriage: she spends more time with her friends, goes to visit relatives, and goes on vacation. Most "divorced" women re-create new family. But just do not do this immediately after the divorce, trying to fill the void. It is necessary to come to your senses, comprehend everything, and only then, after a year or two, think about the next marriage. And there is a fairly common pattern: the second husband may be the first.

Until the woman came to her senses, finally calmed down, decided for herself what is better: to get along with her husband or live without him, she should not make a hasty decision, try to put all the dots on the “and”. The decision of the ex-spouse to leave the family should not be considered final, because pretty soon he begins to understand that he acted recklessly.

But it's worth considering whether she needs it again: worries about arriving late, his drunken gatherings with friends, calls when he leaves the room to answer, and much more.

But if some insignificant reason, a trifle, served as the reason for the divorce, then it is possible that the reunion of the spouses will not take long.
Features of male psychology

Men's psychology is a little different than women's. This ex-wife is experiencing, falling into depression, afraid of loneliness. Meanwhile, her ex-husband, intoxicated with freedom, "comes off to the fullest." It seems to him that the whole world has opened up before them: sleep with whomever you want, eat and drink what you like, go wherever you like, return home whenever you want and no reproaches, angry looks after drinking a glass and, by the way, no one by the hand. does not hold. In addition, you do not need to visit your spouse's relatives on weekends.

Therefore, having made the decision to divorce, men do not suffer from doubts about the correctness of the decision made, do not blame themselves and do not torment themselves with thoughts about the future. But after being “free” for a year or two, almost every second person dreams of returning to their usual family life again with its orderly diet, waiting after a hard day.

There are several reasons why a man may return:
Mistress kicked out of the house.

Health problems have arisen and care is required.

Problems at work, and need moral support.

Paternal feelings for children began to play.

If a year later a “divorced” woman begins to recover, then a man feels completely different. He sees no attraction in casual sex, and the variety of women no longer attracts him. He gets drunk more and more often and ceases to take care of himself, he feels lonely. And the reason lies in disappointment: with his mistress, the same gray everyday life began that was in the family, the solution of which requires great strength from him.

A conflict situation is growing, which is common in the first years of marriage and is the cause of half of the divorces. IN former family such conflicts have long been resolved, and with a mistress you have to remember the stages passed, everything is just beginning. Many men prefer not to waste time and energy and leave. Who to new mistress who decides to return to his ex-wife, realizing that the new one is not as wonderful as it seemed.

What we have, we do not save

It turns out that people value family happiness only when they lose it. When it is near, it becomes ordinary, and they do not notice it. They notice what they have lost when he is not around. It is human nature to err, both men and women alike.

From the "family nest" the life of a bachelor seemed better, simpler, more successful: sexual relations bright, women beautiful, sensitive, complete freedom of choice and action. But now he wants the past stability, the certainty that they are waiting for him at home. And the divorce only helped him realize how happy he was in marriage.

Life is a cruel thing, it presents its surprises and confronts the fact. Random women, sexual relationships take more strength, exhausting mentally and physically. And there is no one to take care, help, restrain harmful inclinations. No one cares what is in his soul, what he wants, what he aspires to and what hurts him.

A man gets tired of a free life and begins to build relationships with his ex-wife. He calls to find out about her affairs and the health of the children. Begins to visit, remember the past family life and reproach yourself: "what an idiot he was." More than half of the "divorced" husbands consider their former half the best of women.

Important functions of family relations are mutual respect, mutual trust and care. But a mistress, even the best, is not able to give it. Trying to try to build a new family life is a rather difficult step. Moreover, there is an ex-wife, whose habits, favorite flowers, advantages and disadvantages he knows. If he, like his ex-wife, worries and does not find joy in life without his ex-wife, then they have a chance to become a family again, and they converge.

If the ex-husband returns, forgive or not?

If, after several months of resuming a relationship, a woman realizes that she is better alone, then she should not let the former on the threshold and into her life. Otherwise, you will have to say goodbye to the new life. But if it gets better with him, then she needs to wait for the right moment (when the ex-husband "ripes"), and then she will be ready to meet him. But first you need to understand the reason for his “bold” act and draw the right conclusions: is there a reason to forgive, and is it worth getting back together after a divorce.

We can talk about the restoration of the family only when both spouses understand that they need to make compromises and realize the mistakes they have made. The return of a husband is a good decision, but it also brings its Negative consequences. Trust is undermined, especially if the husband was the initiator of the departure, and one of the possible causes- another woman.

Divorce affects the mental health of children no less dramatically than their parents, one might even say that it is much stronger. The child's psyche is already traumatized, even if it is barely noticeable or not manifested at all, but it is. Children should take an example from someone, therefore, such actions in the future in relation to their family are not excluded.

It has been observed that every fourth divorced man again converged with his former wife, and every third thinks about it. And you need to keep in mind that only those husbands who are ready to accept return. And to accept or not is a personal decision of the woman. But we must remember that the trust and respect that was before the divorce will no longer be. But if they agreed, then forget the past and look to the future with optimism.

Why is it returning? There are many reasons why men return after a breakup. Human psychology is arranged in a complex way, so it is worth understanding everything in order. Men are returning because:

It is uncomfortable for them to be without a chosen one, her role in their life is quite large.
In comparison, truth is born. It often happens that the former, in the opinion of a man, has better qualities than a new passion.
A representative of the strong half of humanity sometimes needs time to understand how deep his feelings for the former chosen one are. When they are serious enough, the relationship is rekindled.

These are the most common reasons why men return after a breakup. Psychology is a complex thing, it is not so easy to understand it.

How long did it take for you to return

Left alone, a woman gets a little more free time, which is not worth spending bursting into tears, reveling in her own grief and complaining to everyone she meets about her tragic fate. This period can be perfectly filled with useful activities.

Attention

First of all, calm down, listen to yourself, understand what you want, and not what you need. It's time to love your nature. This is where building healthy and happy relationships with other people begins.

A woman who values and loves herself will definitely attract a worthy partner. Thoughts of men I wonder what men think after parting? As a rule, they also try to understand themselves, their feelings.
Some try to just take a break from living together, devote time to hobbies, meet friends.

Did your ex come back to you?

Those who immediately jumped into new ones from previous relationships, in the initial period enjoy the novelty of communication, burning passion, etc. Then there comes a time when a man makes a choice - to remain single, develop a new relationship or return to an ex-woman.

Actions and feelings of a young man The behavior of men after parting is sometimes surprising. Especially if the initiative to break lies with him. Instead of completely disappearing from the life of the former, he begins to look for meetings, regularly reminds himself, tries to attract attention.
It is not uncommon for a man to call after a breakup, catching his ex by surprise. Such actions take place when the culprit of the gap feels confused.
After all, he is not used to being alone, making any decisions on his own, especially if the couple has been together for a long period of time. The feelings of a man after parting are ambiguous.

Did your ex come back...

In addition, this is also one of the reasons why girls return to their former lovers. If the couple was connected only by sex, which suited both of them completely, then the emotional relationship, in essence, was just a shell.
A man or woman will sooner or later leave the couple, trying to find new interesting connections, to try their luck. Also, the cause may be pregnancy or illness - conditions in which intimacy fades into the background.

After looking for new sensations, the guys get bored, and they are already planning a scenario for their return. The girls go even further and portray the pangs of separation. And the relationship continues from the moment it stopped, when one of the couple went towards new sensations.

Duty and Responsibility A sense of responsibility is the reason why girls return to their exes, but it can also be the other way around.

Did your ex come back to you?

Men of the age like to devote their free time to their favorite activities, such as fishing, hunting, etc. During this period, it is better to support a partner, with his permission, you can join his hobby.

Then, perhaps, common interests and topics for communication will arise.

When and why do men return after a breakup: psychology

And although I know the strategy of returning an ex-boyfriend, as well as the successful results of its application, this requires considerable effort on the part of a woman and remarkable determination. And now the million dollar question: Why, after such a breakup, some men come back and try to start a relationship with a woman again? Why did HE come back and what to do about it? Let's understand the reasons and what to do if the former returned? Men learn from their mistakes, but for the most part, they do not learn as quickly as women.

They return to try again, but after they have understood something. I must say that such comebacks rarely end well. But the main question still remains - why are they coming back? There are several explanations for this phenomenon: 1Unforgettable sex. No man is able to refuse good sex.

Why do men return after a breakup?

After all, if you take something out of the fridge and find it has gone bad, you throw it away. I hope you don't have the idea of returning it to the refrigerator in the hope that it will be fresh tomorrow? And in this case, it’s about the same - it’s still better to “throw away”. 3

He is alone again. Men left alone again, as a rule, try to reconnect with their former girlfriends. The reasons may be different, but they are all basically already mentioned above.

It usually starts with an innocent phone call, text message or email. With the help of these simple tricks, a man “checks the water” and tries to determine, by the reaction of a woman, something “shines” for him or “does not shine”. While some repeat relationships can work out well, women need to be very careful when rekindling an old romance.
On the one hand, he is seized by a feeling of freedom and lightness, on the other hand, he often becomes a hostage to such a situation. At first this is not a problem. However, the situation gets a little more complicated later on.
When a man is left just alone with himself, it is much easier for him to figure it out. If a young man has another girlfriend ... If at this moment he is in the company of a new darling, he most often wants to just run away. It seems that the relationship captures him, but it’s one thing to stealthily see his mistress, enjoy intrigue and passionate meetings, and it’s quite another to live with her on the same territory. In everyday life, a person is known as best as possible. And once a sweet stranger can turn into a grumpy roommate in a moment. It happens that having caught your chosen one in communication with the former, the current passion for the first time shows its true face.

Did the ex-boyfriend return to you and after how much

Therefore, she begins to wait for her boyfriend to return to her again. Days, weeks, months pass, and he does not return. After that, the girl frantically searches for information on the Internet to find out "the exact or approximate dates for the return of her ex-boyfriend." But she does not understand the naivety of her question, because according to statistics, such returns are more exceptions than the rule, and they are very rare. Having not found an answer, the girl continues to wait, depriving herself of the opportunity to move on and build new relationships. It is sad. Let's finish the digression and return to the topic of the article. Let's get to the answer to the question "Why do ex-boyfriends come back?" in a business sense. Any romantic relationship is a kind of contract, drawn up on some specific basis: sexual, financial, emotional, or a combination of all of the above.
The content of the article

1 Psychology of male behavior
- 1.1 Lack of attention
- 1.2 Feeling competitive
- 1.3 Playing on feelings
- 1.4 Holy simplicity
- 1.5 Intimate harmony
- 1.6 Duty and responsibility
- 1.7 Love for a child
- 1.8 Living in two families
2 What to do in such a situation

When the parting is over and even the bitter sediment has long turned into mere memories, women often face the fact that a man returns, and this event always takes you by surprise. Why do men return after a breakup, and is it worth thinking about resuming a relationship? Psychology of male behavior If men return after parting, psychology explains this act by several subconscious, and sometimes conscious levers in the behavior of a man.