Nina has long existed in a state of imperishability. What is a moral choice? (1) Nina has long existed in a state of perpetual spiritual tension. What is self-doubt

Trouble came from where they did not expect

I have been looking for an epigraph for my text for a long time, but I could not choose among the many sayings of great people. After all, it is obvious to everyone educational role books. Or, in a broader sense, literature.
There are a lot of different books being published now. And parents have to choose what to buy for the child, and what to carefully protect him from. No matter how negatively I relate to the choice of those parents who believe that girls should only think about boys, dresses and dances, unfortunately, there are. But there are others who raise their daughters to be modest, eager to learn, to be serious, to help adults. They protect their children from literature that colorfully describes the modern style of girls' behavior.
But trouble comes from where they did not expect. School. You can't shield yourself from her. Control work must be done. And there the following text is proposed for work. Let's look at him and think about who he brings up. What effect does it have on girls? I left the numbers on purpose - this is how the text goes in the educational building.

(1) Nina has long existed in a state of imperishable mental tension. (2) Today, the girls at school again showed off their boyfriends. (3) Just about everyone has a friend. (4) But she doesn't.
(5) She used to live for herself and lived, she was quite satisfied with the youth series "Schoolchildren" and girlish glossy magazines from which it was possible to cut cardboard dolls and dress up in princess dresses. (6) But the day came, and Nina raked out cardboard dolls from all the boxes, hairpins in the form of butterflies and hearts, baubles, glass pendants, plastic earrings and sent this wealth to the garbage chute. (7) She acted decisively and methodically, as if preparing for some new life, freeing her room from cheap junk, toys and stupid magazines. (8) And after some time, she suddenly realized that all the changes, by and large, were only external: her life is still empty, boring and very monotonous: school, home, books, the Internet ...
(9) Nina somehow put up with such a meager life, while her best friend Irishka suddenly did not fall in love with Valerka Selivanov overnight, and now the lovers went everywhere together, touchingly holding hands.
(10) If she could oppose Irishkin Valera with her friend ... (11) But there is no friend ...
(12) And if not, maybe it’s worth inventing it? (13) What! (14) She already found a name for him - Dmitry. (15) What might it look like? (16) Let him be tall, slender, broad-shouldered, as it should be for real men, even young ones ... (17) And be sure to be a brunette! (18) Let his eyes be gray to contrast with his hair. (19) It's so beautiful when pure bright eyes look out from under the dark bangs! (20) Dark-haired people, of course, are most often brown-eyed, but Mitya is not real. (21) He is, so to speak, a virtual hero! (22) Virtual… (23) Virtual?! (24) Exactly! (25) Idea!
(26) Nina ran to the nearest cell phone store and bought a new SIM card. (27) At home, she activated it, and then turned on the computer. (28) Here it is, the “Everything to us!” network ... (29) Registration ... (30) First name, last name, mobile phone number, password ... (31) What would you think of a password? (32) But what is it ... (33) We type “my dream” in Latin ... (34) Do you suggest adding some number? (35) Please ... (36) It turned out "my dream at 15" ... (37) Yeah, they missed it! (38) Great! (39) She came up with a biography for the virtual Mitya without difficulty, and took a photo from her mother's album: a young man sits astride some kind of fence and smiles beautifully. (40) His eyes are light, and his hair is dark, as ordered ...
(41) Having done everything that is necessary to fill in Mitina's page, Nina exhaled with satisfaction and leaned back in her computer chair to admire her handiwork. (42) In the network "All to us!" a new user Dmitry Alekseev has appeared, who will look after Nina Kiryanova so beautifully that with envy he will warp not only Dinka Svisyaeva with her Slavik, but also all the other classmates!

This is a fragment from the work of S.A. Lubenets, a modern CHILDREN'S writer.
A lot of questions immediately arise here. Some of them - Is it really a children's writer? Do kids really need to read this? and so on - I will omit it, because I am not considering a literary work here - someone will buy this book for their child, and someone prudently will not do this.
But another part of the questions concerns the compilers of assignments for tests in literature in the 9th grade. Why did they take this work to work? After all, you can't get away from work. And here already parents will not be able to protect their daughter from such a text.

Nina Kiryanova stood at the window in her own room and looked out into the street. The February day was wet, snowy and windy. A wooden slide in a children's town, usually pleasing to the eye with bright colors, seems to have faded, covered with matte rough ice. The wind was throwing small snow pellets, and the railing of the hill turned white right before our eyes. But time passed too slowly. It seemed to the girl that she came from school almost last year and silently stood at the window for all twelve months. The seasons succeeded each other, days flowed into nights, nights into mornings, and she looked out the window, unable to move. Here! Even the feet began to tingle, and the fingers clinging to the curtain became numb.

Nina glanced at the wall clock. It had only been twenty minutes since she returned home. Very strange. Will she now always live in slow motion? Or has the clock just stopped? The girl pulled out a mobile phone from her school bag. No, that's right... She's only been home for twenty-two minutes. What is it? Why are these minutes crawling like snails?! However, it is clear ... Because she has nowhere to put herself! She doesn’t want anything: she doesn’t want to watch TV, or read, she doesn’t even want to go to the Internet. I'm tired of all! All!!! She doesn't need minutes or hours... so they mock her.

The girls at school were bragging about their boyfriends again today. Just about everyone has a friend. Lie, of course. Take Svisyaeva... What kind of guy would covet her? From one surname badly done! Yes, and Dinka herself is not a beauty: short, wide, with a thin ponytail of hair of an indefinite color, but there too! Boy, you see, she has! My name is Slavik! Ugh! Slaviki, Stasiki, Vadiki... Should a real guy have such a name?! And what? Well ... for example, Yaroslav! No, the Yaroslavs are abbreviated as Yariki. Slavik - Yarik ... one raspberry. Well ... here's another good name - Igor! No, Igor is no good either ... This name has no diminutive at all. Is that - Igorek ... Igoreshka. Igoreshka is a ladle, a nightmare! Not a single decent name...

However, it's not about the name. Now, if she, Nina, had a friend, she would not care what his name is ... One could even agree to some Stasik. She would call him Stas. Stylish! And Vadik can be called Vadim. Although no, Vadim - somehow very adult, officially ... But some Vadims, by the way, are called Dims. Yes! Dad has a friend who is Vadim, and so he is Uncle Dima. Dima, Dmitry... Good name! Courageous. But it's too common. They have two Dimas in the class. So what? She would call her Dmitry, for example, Mitya ... Ha! His! Where can I get it, my own? There is no one in the class to look at. Both Dimas are real cretins! And the rest are no better! In parallel classes, you also won’t look at the guys without tears! Whoa! Where are you real guys?

It seemed to Nina that she had been thinking about this question for quite a long time, and therefore the minutes-snails should have already decently crawled forward. She glanced at her watch again and even stamped her foot in annoyance. It's only been three minutes. Only three! And there's still half a day to go! What are they to a person who has nowhere to put himself and in whom everything has gone wrong in the body?

She, Nina, has long existed in a state of perpetual spiritual tension. Previously, she lived for herself and lived quietly, went with the flow, not particularly thinking about anything. She was quite satisfied with the youth series "Schoolchildren" and girlish glossy magazines. She always signed up for attachments that could be cut into cardboard dolls and dressed up in princess dresses. She had a whole collection of these dolls. But this August, after returning home from her grandmother, who had a rest for two months, Nina took all the cardboard dolls to the garbage chute. Without any regret. They seemed very absurd, clumsy and tasteless to her. After that, Nina scooped out bright hairpins in the form of butterflies and hearts, multi-colored baubles, glass pendants, plastic earrings from all the boxes and sent this wealth after the dolls. She acted decisively and methodically. On their own initiative. She, without realizing it, seemed to be preparing for some new life, freeing her room from cheap trash, toys and stupid magazines.

For several months after that, Nina lived happily in a new and, as it seemed to her, almost adult life, enjoying the change of values. She cut her hair, which she used to always curl into tight curls. Her haircut was stylish, asymmetrical. The long slanting bangs, however, prevented her from looking, but Nina easily put up with it. Not only beauty, but also style require certain sacrifices. Instead of large plastic earrings, she now wore her mother's silver roses with pink amethysts, and instead of her favorite bright crimson jacket with a trim, she wore a strict dark brown sheepskin coat, which she was ashamed to wear even in severe frosts.

Her friends, of course, noticed the change that had happened to her. Some approved of this change, others did not, but Nina did not care. Almost all her friends, except for Irishka Mikheeva, she also cut off from herself in the most ruthless way, like cardboard dolls. They were angry and tried to weave intrigues behind her back, but there was nothing to weave them out of. Nina did not give the intriguers any reason. She just studied with pleasure, read books that were now advised to her not by her friends, but by her mother, and comprehended the wisdom of the new social Internet network under funny name"All to us!".

And after the meeting of the New Year, Ninina's life for some reason went wrong. She suddenly realized that all the changes, by and large, were only external. Curls and haircuts are just options for hairstyles. And plastic, and silver - all the same earrings. The books advised by my mother are, of course, more interesting than girlish magazines, but they are about someone else's life. And her, Ninina, life is still empty, boring and very monotonous: school, home, books, the Internet ... and so on without end and without edge.

Nina somehow put up with such a meager life fullness, until her best friend Irishka suddenly fell in love overnight. And to whom! In Valerka Selivanova, with whom they studied together from the very first grade. Of course, Selivanov was highly respected in the class, but his appearance, from Nina's point of view, was no good. He was ugly blond and indecently snub-nosed, but for some reason this did not bother Irishka at all. At the sight of Valery, she either fainted, then blushed, then turned pale alternately, until finally at the New Year's disco she invited him to dance and in the most daring way she confessed her ardent love. Selivanov, whom no girl ever paid any attention to as an object of sighing, was so stunned by the unexpected happiness that now he would not let Irishka go anywhere. The lovers walked everywhere together, touchingly holding hands, and Nina was left alone. As they say, in your own interests. At first, she took up her studies with even greater zeal, especially leaning on physics, which was not very good for her, and one morning she suddenly woke up with a feeling of emptiness around her. Ringing. Cold. And what does she need this physics for? Why do you need everything at all, if in this everything she is completely alone? And stretched exhausting their infinity days.

At school, time still went a little faster than at home, but Nina now felt superfluous among her classmates. The guys seemed funny and small compared to the heroes of recently read books, and the girls looked like stupid chickens who only had clothes and talk about love in their minds. Even Irishka, ever since she fell in love with Selivanov, could not talk about anything but her Valera. You might think that Nina is interesting to listen to!

Although ... if she could oppose Irishkin Valera with her friend ... perhaps they would have found common topics with their friend - they would have discussed their relationship, they would have boasted, for example, of the gifts of their boyfriends ... But there is no friend ... no ... And if not, maybe is it worth inventing it? And what! She has already found a name for him - Dmitry, who can be called Mitya. Surname? Yes, you don’t need a surname ... What is it for? What does Mitya look like? Well, how ... how ... He just has to look good! Let him be tall, slender, broad-shouldered, as it should be for real men, even young ones ... And be sure to be a brunette! It's only Irishka who likes chicken blondes. Let Mita's eyes be gray to ... contrast with her hair. It is so beautiful when pure light eyes look out from under the dark bangs! Dark-haired people, of course, are most often brown-eyed, but Mitya is not real ... He is, so to speak ... a virtual hero! Virtual, virtual... Virtual?! Exactly! Idea!

What is self-doubt?

I know firsthand about self-doubt ... Doubt in my physical or spiritual strength, low self-esteem, constraint and inability to make decisions on my own - these are the reasons why I sometimes feel insecure. However, the most main reason my insecurity - dependence on someone else's opinion.

I think uncertainty eats a person alive, making him a puppet in the hands of an indifferent society. Most often this happens during the transition period: adolescents become insecure due to the fact that they do not correspond to the general “ideal”. This applies to everything: appearance, demeanor, own opinion, often wrong. I will prove this thesis with examples from the text of S.A. Lubenets and life experience.

Firstly, the girl Nina feels different from everyone else. She thinks that no one can please, and it depresses her. Sentences 2-4 say that all her classmates have young people, but she does not, so the girl decides to create a page for her ideal "lover" so that everyone knows that Ninochka is in great demand. In this deception, her self-doubt is manifested.

Secondly, one of my acquaintances is a very constrained and squeezed person because of his "troubles" and complexes. He speaks little, does not participate in any activities and does not go anywhere. Many consider him a bore. That's what I thought too. Once we had to talk a lot at school, he turned out to be a very interesting conversationalist with a great sense of humor. I am sure that someday his "clamps" will go away and he will understand: individuality is the most important thing in a person, and you should not strive to be like anyone.

Having considered two arguments, we found that a person becomes insecure most often due to the influence of public opinion. It's time, in the end, to accept the fact that each person is unique and in no case should you copy someone, because in this way we will all become the same, and life will be boring.

Molorodova Julia, student of I.A. Suyazova

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(1) Nina has long existed in a state of perpetual spiritual tension. (2) Today, the girls at school again showed off their boyfriends. (3) Just about everyone has a friend. (4) But she doesn't.

(5) Previously, she lived for herself and lived, she was quite satisfied with the youth series “Schoolchildren” and girlish glossy magazines, from which cardboard dolls could be cut out and dressed in dresses for princesses. (6) But the day came, and Nina raked out cardboard dolls from all the boxes, hairpins in the form of butterflies and hearts, baubles, glass pendants, plastic earrings and sent this wealth to the garbage chute. (7) She acted decisively and methodically, as if preparing for some new life, freeing her room from cheap junk, toys and stupid magazines. (8) And after some time, she suddenly realized that all the changes, by and large, were only external: her life is still empty, boring and very monotonous: school, home, books, the Internet ...

(9) Nina somehow put up with such a meager life, until her best friend Irishka suddenly fell in love with Valerka Selivanov overnight, and now the lovers walked everywhere together, touchingly holding hands.

(10) If she could oppose Irishkin Valera with her friend ... (11) But there is no friend ...

(12) And if not, maybe it’s worth inventing it? (13) What! (14) She already found a name for him - Dmitry. (15) What might it look like? (16) Let him be tall, slender, broad-shouldered, as it should be for real men, even young ones ... (17) And be sure to be a brunette! (18) Let his eyes be gray to contrast with his hair. (19) It's so beautiful when pure bright eyes look out from under the dark bangs! (20) Dark-haired people, of course, are most often brown-eyed, but Mitya is not real. (21) He is, so to speak, a virtual hero! (22) Virtual… (23) Virtual?! (24) Exactly! (25) Idea!

(26) Nina ran to the nearest cell phone store, bought a new one there

sim card. (27) At home, she activated it, and then turned on the computer. (28) Here it is, the “Everything to us!” network ... (29) Registration ... (30) First name, last name, mobile phone number, password ... (31) What would you think of a password? (32) But what is it ... (33) We type “my dream” in Latin ... (34) Do you suggest adding some number? (35) Please ... (36) It turned out "my dream at 15" ... (37) Yeah, they missed it! (38) Great! (39) She came up with a biography for the virtual Mitya without difficulty, and took a photo from her mother's album: a young man sits astride some kind of fence and smiles beautifully. (40) His eyes are light, and his hair is dark, as ordered ...

Self-doubt is a humiliating feeling, unfortunately, I know firsthand about it. Low self-esteem, doubt in physical and spiritual strength, fear of making independent decisions - these are the reasons that sometimes make you feel insecure. But the main source of indecision is dependent on the opinions of others.

In my opinion, uncertainty suppresses a person, makes him a puppet in the hands of people with a strong character.

This often happens in adolescence when a growing person realizes

Which does not correspond to the general “ideal”. During the period of growing up, literally everything is critically perceived: appearance, demeanor, reasoning, and even one's own opinion.

This thesis can be supported by concrete arguments from the text of S. A. Lubenets, as well as from his own experience.

The writer tells about the experiences of Nina Kiryanova. Almost all classmates have boyfriends, brag about their relationships (sentences 2-4), but Nina does not young man. The girl believes that no one likes it and it depresses her.

But the schoolgirl is not ready to put up with this state of affairs, so she creates a fake one on the Internet.

The page of your "beloved". She comes up with a name, surname, biography for him, and borrows a photo of a pretty brunette from her mother's album. Now the virtual Dima will beautifully look after Nina, and some of her classmates will “become warped with envy” ...

In this deception, the heroine's uncertainty about her merits is manifested.

Another example is related to my friend. Apparently, due to complexes and his own “troubles”, he is rather shy: he doesn’t go anywhere with the guys, he doesn’t participate in school events. Many peers consider him a bore.

I, too, adhered to a common opinion until I had to closely associate with him in my studies. It turned out that the “nerd” has a great sense of humor and is an interesting conversationalist. I hope that over time he will get rid of complexes and understand that individuality is the most valuable human quality and should not be imitated by anyone.

These two examples show that insecurity in a person is most often born under the influence of the opinion of the majority. But it is necessary to realize that each person is unique and one should not strive to be like another, otherwise everyone will become the same, and life will lose its diversity.

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Reasoning about self-doubt according to the text Lubenets Nina has long existed in a state of enduring emotional tension (USE in Russian)

Svetlana Anatolyevna Lubenets

Love online and in reality

Birth of the perfect hero

However, it's not about the name. Now, if she, Nina, had a friend, she would not care what his name is ... One could even agree to some Stasik. She would call him Stas. Stylish! And Vadik can be called Vadim. Although no, Vadim - somehow very grown-up, officially ... But some Vadims, by the way, are called Dims. Yes! Dad has a friend who is Vadim, and so he is Uncle Dima. Dima, Dmitry... Good name! Courageous. But it's too common. They have two Dimas in the class. So what? She would call her Dmitry, for example, Mitya ... Ha! His! Where can I get it, my own? There is no one in the class to look at. Both Dimas are real nerds! And the rest are no better! In parallel classes, you also won’t look at the guys without tears! Whoa! Where are you real guys?

For several months after that, Nina lived happily in a new and, as it seemed to her, almost adult life, enjoying the change of values. She cut her hair, which she used to always curl into tight curls. Her haircut was stylish, asymmetrical. The long slanting bangs, however, prevented her from looking, but Nina easily put up with it. Not only beauty, but also style require certain sacrifices. Instead of large plastic earrings, she now wore her mother's silver roses with pink amethysts, and instead of her favorite bright crimson jacket with an edge, she wore a strict dark brown sheepskin coat, which she was ashamed to wear even in severe frosts.

Her friends, of course, noticed the change that had happened to her. Some approved of this change, others did not, but Nina did not care. Almost all her friends, except for Irishka Mikheeva, she also cut off from herself in the most ruthless way, like cardboard dolls. They were angry and tried to weave intrigues behind her back, but there was nothing to weave them out of. Nina did not give the intriguers any reason. She just studied with pleasure, read books that were now advised to her not by her friends, but by her mother, and comprehended the wisdom of a new social Internet network under the funny name “All to us!”.

At school, time still went a little faster than at home, but Nina now felt superfluous among her classmates. The guys seemed funny and small compared to the heroes of recently read books, and the girls looked like stupid chickens who had only clothes and talk about love in their minds. Even Irishka, ever since she fell in love with Selivanov, could not talk about anything but her Valera. You might think that Nina is interesting to listen to!

Although ... if she could oppose Irishkin Valera with her friend ... perhaps they would have found common topics with their friend - they would have discussed their relationship, they would have boasted, for example, of the gifts of their boyfriends ... But there is no friend ... no ... And if not, maybe is it worth inventing it? And what! She already found a name for him - Dmitry, who can be called Mitya. Surname? Yes, you don’t need a surname ... What is it for? What does Mitya look like? Well, how ... how ... He just has to look good! Let him be tall, slender, broad-shouldered, as it should be for real men, even young ones ... And be sure to be a brunette! It's only Irishka who likes chicken blondes. Let Mita's eyes be gray to ... contrast with her hair. It is so beautiful when pure light eyes look out from under the dark bangs! Dark-haired people, of course, are most often brown-eyed, but Mitya is not real ... He is, so to speak ... a virtual hero! Virtual, virtual... Virtual?! Exactly! Idea!

Nina has long existed in a state of imperishability. What is a moral choice? (1) Nina has long existed in a state of perpetual spiritual tension. What is self-doubt

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