How to behave in a club to pick up a girl? How to pick up a girl in a nightclub

In the club, the girls are set up for the fact that the guys will approach them and get to know each other. The club is a great place to practice your social skills and meet beautiful girls.

Dating in a club always opens up many advanced insights for me to grow. The following 11 insights will help you understand how to properly meet a girl in a club and improve your results.

1. Feel the thread of the conversation, have a sense of control

1. You must feel your condition and feel the girl.
2. There must be an understanding: here is loud music- Do not pay attention to conversations and focus on words. And in that place - it's quiet, there we can get to know each other perfectly.
3. You should notice when you talk to nowhere.
4. Feel when your words are superfluous due to loud music.
5. Much more can be said through the eyes than through words..

These 5 points will make it easier for you to communicate and help you understand how best to get to know a girl in a club and not waste your energy.

2. Calibrate for the state of the girl, trust empathy

Read from the girl's face her condition

Look carefully at the girl's face, at her facial expressions, eyes. So I can always determine what I can already do with a girl now, but what is too early.

From her face, I read what emotional level the girl is on. Thanks to this, I can determine whether I can right now suck this girl without words.

If I read on a girl's face mild discomfort means she is not yet accustomed to the club. So she won't react well if I quickly start hugging her. Then I'm in no hurry. This fine calibration should always be.

Empathy

Empathy is when I feel what a girl feels. It develops itself when you have done a lot of approaches.

Don't put too much pressure on her.

If I feel that a girl is freezing, scared because of me, I say sentences that turn off the pressure between us and relieve stress from the girl.

For example: " Oh, sorry, I'm too arrogant. I have».

With these words you let her know:

• that you are an adequate person and you have a healthy emotional system;
• you don't want to scare her or hurt her.

Such proposals must be made. Then she relaxes and feels safe next to you.

Video with an example of my approach

My acquaintance with two beauties in the next video.

3. Meet unknown mixed companies

You should not be limited only to communication with girls. Approach groups of girls with guys.

Many guys smile at me when I easily get acquainted with the girls from his company. Just determine in advance who exactly from his company is the guy's girl.

Don't fight guys! The guy may turn out to be a great person, and you can make friends. Then he will introduce you to his girlfriends. Knowing who you are, the guy will help you get close to the girls from his company.

4. Chat with guys: make it easier for yourself to play

Chat with strangers. Many guys come to the club to get acquainted only with girls. Do not limit yourself, communicate with men. FROM any of them you can find mutual language . He may even become in the future an excellent partner for joint trips to the club.

A stranger can help you

So, you made friends with a guy at a club. Then you can always find it, and you can dance together and jump on the dance floor. Can do respite,talk about your topics.

Once I had a conversation with one interesting guy . He bought me juice himself, and then we did approaches together and met girls. He was very good with the girls and also came to the club alone, just like me!

5. Quick hug and dance with her

Dancing and quick hugs give you the opportunity to immediately get close to the girl. Quick hugs you jump over all these banal questions: "What is your name?". You seem to have known her for five years.

This method gives an understanding of how to quickly get to know a girl. Thus, you easily approach her and suck her in.

Dancing with a girl – an important key to rapprochement! It is in the dance that you feel each other, touch each other and get excited. In the dance you feel her nice figure, waist, byrd. It is in the dance that attraction and passion for the girl is quickly created. Girls also love close hugs and quick rapprochement.

Keys to dance with a girl in a club

• Dance with a girl so that you have fun first of all. Do everything for your own pleasure, so that YOU enjoy it. Know that everything will be ok!
• Be completely in the moment. Don't look around, don't look at the people around, completely immerse yourself in the dance with her. Let the fun music flow through you. Enjoy the process. Focus only on yourself and on the dance with the girl.

Video "How to dance with her and quickly approach on the dance floor"

You don't have to be a dance master. All variations of dancing with a girl on the dance floor and pickup in the club, see this video:

6. Understand that words on loud dance floors only ruin everything.

Give minimal importance to words

On a loud dance floor, you don't have to ask a girl where she works or anything. People come to the club to relax and get away from the daily routine.

In general, you give minimal importance to words. Loud music everywhere.

The words on the dance floor will simply be a sign and a fact of acceptance of your convergence. It's like a little formality between the two of you, don't attach too much importance to them. Focus on your condition. Non-verbalism plays a major role.

Non-verbal: look and smile

Eyes are very important in non-verbal! Your look should fully correspond to your good condition.

The gaze is the most attractive tool. The way you look at a girl and your look can say a lot more than simple words.

You must have an inner smile. Natural smile inside. It attracts and gives people warm emotions.

An example of my approach

So I'm on the dance floor saw a beautiful girl. I tell her: "Let's go dancing," or without a word I take her hand. I lead, I put my arm around the girl's waist and we plunge into the dance, clinging close to each other. I don't even know her name, who she is. I just chose her.

At the moment I'm shooting my video from the club with interesting cuts.

You can bring a lot good videos examples of dating in the club and club seduction. For all the time of practice, they accumulate enough.

7. Chips with kisses: instant quick sensation of the right to kiss passionately

Here I will not focus. You can read more about kissing in the articles at the link below.

If you met the one, how to spend time with her

So, you found the very girl in the club that you really like. You are doing great.

You must always know how to spend time with her. And you will never get lost and procrastinate, you will know what to do. The girl will feel your confidence and will trust you more.

Put all these insights into practice.

I told you some of my tips on how to meet a girl in a nightclub in an original way.

You can get even more secrets and advanced material on my live programs and individual training!

Very often, men come to the club to get acquainted, but all they can do is watch a sexy woman for an hour, admire how she dances and imagine having sex with her. This problem is due to the fact that the guy cannot dare to approach the young lady and speak. He does not know where to start the conversation, how it will look from the outside. And finally, he is sure that such beautiful girl doesn't want to meet him at the club.
To solve this problem, I wrote this article. In it I will tell you how to meet a girl in a club or disco, how to approach and what to say in order to minimize the number of refusals.

And now let's continue. The biggest mistake a guy makes when meeting at a disco is that he shows himself to be in need of sex. Everyone understands that beauties in the club often dress sexy, and a man who has not had sex for a long time looks with hungry eyes and thinks: “I would have caught you in my bed now.”

The problem is that when a young lady dances, she watches who and how reacts to her. And if a person looks in her direction without a break, then this will show him hungry and in need of sex. This picture can also be traced when a guy walks alone around the club and looks at all the women you can meet at the disco.

Never pretend that you came to the club to find a girl for sex. The hungry never get food. If a young lady notices that you are walking alone, no one needs you, then no matter how confidently you approach there, and what magical first phrase you come up with, the chances of a successful acquaintance with a girl at a disco will be minimal.

Just remember this, and vice versa - show yourself as if you already have a lot of women in your life. You have to show your high status, then the question of how to meet a girl in a nightclub will be funny, and the girls themselves will provoke you into a conversation.

An important role in meeting in the club is also played by your appearance. It doesn't mean you have to be handsome. Not at all. Just dress nicely for your figure. Clothing plays an important role, and a lot has already been written about it on this site. They are greeted by clothes. And this is the first thing any beauty will pay attention to when you want to meet her at a disco.

Also don't forget about good perfume and cool comb. The better you look, the more impression you will make on the young lady.

Do not think that only women need to sit in front of a mirror for half a day. Men also need it. Of course, half a day is not necessary, but it is necessary to set aside some time.

If you came to the club with a group of friends, then, of course, it is a little easier for you, because there is someone to talk to and you will no longer look like a lonely and abandoned boy. But there are times when such a company simply does not exist. Then acquaintance with a girl in a club should be started immediately, as soon as you entered the disco.

If you stand and look at the girl, and then approach her, then the chances of a successful acquaintance will decrease.
The maximum time you can afford to stand is 2-3 minutes to quietly assess where there are cool women and what they are. After that, you can think about how to meet a girl at a disco.

I want to immediately notice that if a young lady came to the club, it means that she wants to meet someone and have sex. Just always remember - she dances so that such a cool guy like you pays attention to her, and finally decides to approach. And no matter how much she assured you that she just likes to dance or cool music, this is not true.

She can turn on music and dance at home. But the club differs from the house in that there are cool guys there. Therefore, one should not think that a woman has a boyfriend or is married. At the disco, usually all the beauties are free and open for dating.

After you see a woman in the club that you really want to meet, confidently go to her and start communication. It is important here that she sees how you approach. The best thing is to catch her eye and immediately go to her.

After you approach, it really doesn't matter what you say to her. Much more important is how you do it and how you look. So when you approach, be sure to smile and speak loudly, depending on the tone of the music. Also, don't forget to look her straight in the eyes. This will show you self-confident, and success in a successful acquaintance with a girl in a club will increase several times.

You can start a conversation on topics that surround you with her. You can start talking about how you like it here and ask her about it. You can just compliment the girl on how she dances or looks. But then again, if you give a compliment, the main thing is that it should be really from the heart and truthful.

Also, don't forget to dance. If you can dance well, then this is very good. Can you invite girl to dance. Nothing ignites passion like dancing.

After you have talked to her at the disco, there are two options for the development of events: try to take her home, or just take the phone number, and end your communication there.

I propose to try to achieve the first goal and go home with the young lady in order to have sex. Of course, before that, you need to think about what she will ride with you and where. I already wrote about how to do this competently: “How to invite a girl home? 5 effective ways".

If the first goal was not achieved, then you need to take the number from the beauty and after a while call back and make an appointment.

Further, in order not to waste time, you can go up to another girl and meet in a club. Even if at first you don’t have very successful acquaintances with a girl at a disco, the main thing is not to stop, but continue what you started. Over time, you will learn how to get acquainted without any problems, take numbers from women and invite them home.

Well, that's all about the topic "How to meet a girl in a club." Good luck, dear friend!

Those guys who know how to get acquainted in the club always leave there with the girls.

Because the club is a place where girls do not come to dance (as you often hear from them), but to find a lover for one or more nights. And that means leaving there without a girlfriend - throwing money away, lowering round sums for entrance and alcohol.

If you are used to leaving the club without a salty slurp, then this article will help you finally get off the ground. And then, having gained a minimum amount of experience, you can easily meet almost any girl in the club.

First, you must understand that →

They scan you as soon as you enter.

Even if it seems to you that the girls are talking with their girlfriends or doing something, don't believe it.

Their main focus is where the club itself begins. Every guy who enters it subject to scrutiny on confidence, positivity and the success of the opposite sex (yes, girls in the club can easily determine this just by looking at you).

As soon as you enter, pretend to be waving to someone inside the club (the girls will probably not understand who exactly you were waving to, so all that remains for you is to do it naturally). This is necessary in order to immediately create an image of a sought-after sexually attractive man.

It is important to smile at the very beginning. Those who walk with a serious, confused or frightened expression show their insecurity and failure in life.

Looking at girls should be very confident. It is important to look straight into the eyes and smile (at least a little). Don't hold your gaze too long, but don't look away until she does it first.

In no case do not look at them or at their charms with a hungry look. Otherwise, you will immediately set the wrong course for the whole seduction.

And try to start communicating with everyone around you at the entrance to the club. After all →

Short communications are the key to success in the club

If you want to really successfully get acquainted with real beauties in a club, you must create the image of a guy in demand among women.

What can be done for this?

There is a very simple way - to arrange short communications (a few phrases are enough) with other beauties.

Of course you won't be the one you're talking to. And this is not necessary. But everyone who watches you (and believe me, dozens of girls are watching you, you just don’t notice it) will have the impression that you are really very cool if so many girls communicate with you.

During such. Even when they frankly reject you. Don't be afraid to look weird in front of that girl who doesn't want to talk to you. After all, your task is to show everyone around you that communication is going well.

Those girls with whom you want to meet should not be approached immediately.

There are two reasons for this:

1. There is a certain moment of qualification that she is interested in you. Up to this point, acquaintance will contain some difficulties. And short communications with other girls help to interest your “victim”.
2. Your potential "victims" should doubt their own attractiveness for you. When the thought begins to eat them up: “Why does he come to others, and not to me?”, consider that the deed is done.

And the more such communications you make, the more those who are already interested in you will appear. This means that you can continue to communicate with them if the main “candidates” refuse you.

Moreover, you should not focus only on one girl. The club is a dynamic system: 5 minutes ago you had an interesting conversation with a girl, and now she is kissing another guy. Therefore, it is foolish to focus on the one that you may not give. Each of the girls with whom you communicate normally should receive about the same amount of attention from you as the others.

So you increase your chances of seducing at least someone and reduce all possible risks.

Don't look there!

The enchanted glances of the guys directed at the dance floor always betray their unfortunateness. Because successful and self-confident men, who are constantly surrounded by female attention, do not look at the dance floor. They communicate with beauties and have fun.

You must do the same. As soon as you "blunted" and started looking at dancing people, consider that you lost. At least your chances are greatly reduced.

The easiest way

This method is not only about how to meet in the club. Thanks to him, you will be able to seduce a girl on the same night. And save a lot of time and effort.

You have to go "circle" around the club, casually touching the girls. And watch the reaction of each of them. If a girl does not jump away from you, then seduce her. If she frankly "led" to you, then in the second round you can start communicating with her.

The advantage of the method is that you have a reason to touch a girl(pull aside to pass). And immediately determine who you need to spend time on, and who is not worth it at all. After all, sometimes a girl keeps up the conversation just "out of courtesy." And only her reaction to your touch shows the presence or absence of interest.

Knowing these simple tips, you can easily get acquainted in the club. And take the girls from there straight to your home. Implement these tips on the next club night, and you will see for yourself that the girls are really ready for sex within two hours of meeting you.

Most guys don't know how meet a girl in the club, how to behave, how to approach, what to say and many more questions. Often because of insecurity, it is difficult for guys to get acquainted with a girl. in club or because of another reason or problem, but if you clearly decide to learn how to get acquainted in clubs, then you can learn.

In the article you will learn how to get acquainted with a girl in a club what you need to know, be able to do and what you need to correct in yourself in order to communicate and get to know girls has become much easier and easier. The most important thing is just to know what you want and go towards your goal.

To meet a girl in a club, you need to learn how to dance beautifully and interestingly, love clubs and girls. If you personally do not like being in a club, then there is no point in getting acquainted there. There are many other places to meet. If you still learn how to dance beautifully and eye-catching, then you will interest many girls so that they themselves will begin to approach you to get acquainted.

Decide what you want

Before you go to a club to meet a girl in a club, you need to decide what you need all this for. According to statistics, only 20% of people after meeting in a club were able to create a successful relationship. If you do not have goals and plans for serious relationship, then you can safely get acquainted with the girls in the club, especially if you have extra money.

If you want a long-term relationship, then you should not choose a club as a place for dating. Everyone can learn meet with a girl in a club, but you need to understand that time and money do not like to be wasted.

Take courage

To meet a girl in a club, you just need to muster up the courage and approach her. Everyone does it differently, but it’s better to get to know each other sober in order to overcome inner fear forever, and not just for a short period. Courageous guys get the best and most beautiful girls, as modest and shy ones are afraid to be the first to approach and get to know each other.

To meet a girl in club, no need to think about who you are, forget about everything and behave the way you should behave with a girl. Be bold and confident. If your voice is trembling and you are afraid to approach, then it’s better not to approach yet, since such an acquaintance will lead to nothing. But remember, in order to overcome this fear, in any case, you will need to approach more than one girl.

How to meet a girl

Ask a girl to dance

If you don't know how meet a girl in a club, then just go up to her and invite her to dance if the appropriate music for a dance together has started playing in the club. But before that, it is advisable to practice at home and learn to dance. You can make an appointment with a professional to have him or her teach you how to dance beautifully.

If you learn how to dance wonderfully in a club, then getting to know a girl will not be difficult, as often they will come up to you. Remember, girls love guys who dance and move beautifully, because of this, mostly normal girls and go to the club, without selfish goals. Dance for a girl is something more than for a guy and a man.

But do not think that with one dance and your active movements you will force the girl to spend the night with you. The girl needs to be conquered. At any age, for a female, it is important for a man to behave in society - how he is dressed, whether his shoes are clean, how he looks at the girl, then how he will speak to her for the first time, what words he will choose for greeting. All this in total makes the girl understand what the guy is like and whether it is worth starting a conversation with him.

If you dance seductively while looking passionately at the girl or winking at her from time to time, your desire to get to know the girl better may end there. In order for a girl to pay attention to you, you need to stand out from the crowd and show her that you are more interested in her than all the other ladies present here. For this you need to act.

If she says "no" to me?

Most guys are afraid that a girl will immediately say “no” to them. If you approach her without hinting at anything, start a conversation, no one will send you to hell. A very correct action on your part would be a cautious display of interest. You should not put pressure on the girl and force her to drink the cocktail you bought or drag her to the dance floor so that she jumps with you. When a girl becomes interested in you, wants to communicate with you, she will not refuse you to dance or take a walk after the club.

The main goal is to make a first impression. So pay attention to how you leave your apartment when you head to the club. Is everything in order with you - is the T-shirt / shirt / T-shirt ironed qualitatively, are the shoes / sneakers clean and if the hair is not dirty. Everything should be as good as if you are going on your first date. By the way, in some situations, everything happens like this - the first acquaintance takes place in the club, and at the same time the first pastime together.

To be afraid of wolves - do not go into the forest

Since you came to the club and set yourself a goal - meet a girl, you must admit, it is stupid to return home and understand that you have not achieved your goal. “What will happen tomorrow or the day after tomorrow”, “and will anything happen to her at all.” I liked the girl - act. Why do you need tomorrow if it hasn't come yet? Modern youth lives today, this minute, appreciates every second of life.

How can you meet a girl

Choose Your Dinner Carefully

Girls enjoy smells. Smells mean a lot to women. Therefore, be vigilant during the evening meal before going out to the club, as there are products whose smell cannot be masked by mint "orbit" or even menthol toothpaste. Give up hot spices, onions, garlic, fish in any form, spicy ketchup and similar foods. Whatever you eat for dinner, take a shower and brush your teeth. Bring gum with you to the club.

Guys mistakes

- Don't show how cool you are . Girls do not perceive unnecessary show-off.

- Don't start a conversation with stupid phrases and questions like “What are you doing?” or “Oh baby, hi, how are you?”.

- Taboo - asking her age . Since she's in the club, she's eighteen. And this is the main thing. If you can't wait to find out her age after talking a little, ask her sometime what year she graduated from high school. Or find out how long she has been in university/college.

- Don't be too humble , but unleashed also be out of place in this case. Be polite and respectful.

- Don't use swear words . Yes, someone once decided that swear words are swear words and their use is unacceptable in high society. Swear words are always unpleasant to hear. But these are the norms of behavior, and you should not break them at least in the presence of people you do not know.

- persistence. It is certainly worth taking the initiative, but not so much that the girl begins to be afraid of you and complains to the security of the nightclub.

- Sense of humor. If you have no sense of humor and are too serious, then you shouldn't have come to the club at all. Develop a sense of humor in yourself - this quality will help you not only when meeting girls, but in general in life. You cannot be a serious person who does not care about what is happening around.

- Coarseness. Never confuse rudeness with perseverance. A strong character in men does not mean that you need to communicate with a girl, as if you are seeing her for the last time and you need to show all your bad manners. Be gallant towards the girl. Even if she tells you “no”, you should not be rude to her and call her offensive words, just because “I tried, but she refused me. How could she!

How to meet a girlin club

What to say?

Actually, dancing is dancing, and the most important thing is what words to choose so that the girl agrees to communicate.

Forbidden greetings:

- Hi dear.

- Hello woman.

- Oh hello.

Say hello normally, like all adequate people - good evening or just hello. This is enough for her to hear your greeting and see you.

Phrases that will scare away a girl:

- You are married?

- How old are you?

- Are you even eighteen?

- I'm tired of this loud music. Maybe to me?

- My sister asked me to look after the baby, but I don't know what to do with him. Come to me, tell me what to do?

Nowadays it is quite difficult to surprise a girl. Ordinary phrases will not interest her. First, come up with a reason for getting to know each other, the topic of your future conversation (at least three or four questions that will help you not be silent during the beginning of the conversation).

Dialogue options:

- Today is my first time in this club. Is there only music here all night or are there other contests for guests?

- I'm here for the first time today. Can you tell me what time the club is open? And are you here until the end? \ Do you often come here?

- Who is at the controls today?

If a girl is sitting at the bar, you can come up and ask directly - "Can I treat the lady with a cocktail." If anything - you have a good reason - you came here with a friend to share the joy, but the friend needed to leave for a short time on business. There can be many reasons for joy - your favorite football/basketball team made it to the finals/ was promoted at work/ a niece was born.

If you notice that an unpleasant person is sticking to the object of your sympathy, it's time to start acting! Walk up to the girl and act like you're her boyfriend by saying, "Honey, are you all right? Can we go home?" This vile type should lag behind the girl, and the girl, in turn (if she is well-mannered and kind), will definitely thank you for such an act.

Just don't stand next to her and wait for her to start saying "thank you". After you play the role of a caring guy, you can move a little to the side or sit close to the young lady. You don't have to disappear completely from the horizon either.

How to meet a girl?

Ask a girl what she's intowhat he does on the weekends, whether he attends any courses. And, according to the situation, invite her to the place where she happens to be. If the girl is sociable and easy-going (you will immediately understand this), you can offer to go to a new place for her. Do not insist if the girl refuses to go anywhere with you. She may refuse you for her reasonable reasons - you must admit, a rare girl will agree to go for a walk with a stranger.

Continue the conversation in the club, ask how she will get home. Maybe you could walk her home. Ask with whom she will return home and, if possible, order a taxi for her (if you feel reciprocal sympathy and interest).

If a girl comes home alone- say that now is not the best time of day to be calm when returning home. Say that you will be worried if she will go home with one taxi driver. Say that taxi drivers are different and you can not trust all drivers. But don't think horror stories that you heard about someone being raped/murdered/stealed in the club area recently. Feel the measure and do not scare the girl with your fantasies.

If you had a drink with a girlin cocktails/or twos/threes and she let you fool her, ask how you can get in touch with her. After all, you are interested in her well-being.

In any case, ask the girl for contacts, since she allowed to take her home, you are not hopeless, and she trusted you at least a little.

If she will be returning with her friends or friends, ask how you can contact her and if she would like to continue communication during the day and in a less noisy place. During a conversation, you can casually find out about her favorite cafe, and invite a girl to her favorite place on a first date.

The main thing - Be confident in yourself and your abilities! Don't be afraid to take the first step. It's great to be the first!

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Any place, situation and environment for meeting two people has its pros and cons. Dating in a nightclub is no exception.

Pros:

• informal, relaxing environment;
• music, alcohol, good mood;
• no need to look for a special occasion;
• it's easy to find a common theme or just treat a girl.
• perhaps acquaintance in dance, without words.

Minuses:

• a large crowd of people;
• loud noise;
• distrust of many girls in the seriousness of dating in the club;
• dangerous acquaintances.

Where to start dating?

How to meet a girl in a nightclub (at a disco)? to "pick up" a girl? Firstly, worth a look around. If among all the girls dancing, sitting at the tables and the bar counter, there is one you like, you can approach her. Before that, you should watch the girl a little to make sure that she came alone.

If a companion is with her, it is better not to provoke a conflict situation and get to know another girl. If, nevertheless, the chosen one is one, you can start dating.

How to attract attention?

To make it easier for yourself when meeting a girl, it's better to draw attention to yourself. It can be done:

• in dance. On the dance floor it is worth being next to her, you can dance together so that she remembers the mysterious stranger;
• at the bar. You can order a girl a drink and ask the bartender to tell her that it is from you;
• depending on the situation. While observing the girl, perhaps there will be a situation in which she will need help. Here you can offer it and thereby be remembered, maybe even start a conversation. The same applies to .

Not every girl wants to meet in a nightclub. Some people come there just to dance, to see their friends, to celebrate a birthday, etc. Signs that a girl is ready to meet:

• she sits at the bar, sipping a cocktail for a long time;
• she looks around, pays attention to young people;
• laughs merrily and loudly, attracts attention;
• discusses with girlfriends the guys who are in the club;
• she is brightly and beautifully dressed, she has bright makeup;
• girl in stilettos or high heels;
• the girl willingly communicates with people, smiles, flirts.

Acquaintance

The process of dating in a nightclub can be completely different, as well as the situation. Consider the most popular options.

At the entrance, face control

At the entrance to the club, there may be a queue, delay or problems with entry. If for some reason the girl you like does not pass the control, you can help her with the entrance. it perfect option acquaintances, but it will work only if there are familiar members of the club.

Other dating options at the input:

• skip the girl forward, open the door in front of her, etc .;
• help take off your coat, hand over things to the wardrobe.

In a word, somehow identify yourself, show attention. After that, there will be more all night to get to know you better.

On the dance floor

There are practically no slow dances in clubs, there is constant movement. It is unlikely that you will be able to invite a girl to a classic "slow dance", but it's not scary.

You can dance close to her, come closer and try to interact in the dance. If a girl responds to such flirting, the first step is taken. Then, when she gets tired of dancing, go and talk to her:

• praise her dancing skills;
• compliment your appearance
• start a conversation about her, find out the phone number;
• continue communication.

If a girl on the dance floor does not show interest in communication, for sure, do not continue to hint at acquaintance. Most likely, she is in a relationship, and she is not interested in dating in a club.

At the table or bar

If you liked girl sitting at the bar:

• you can sit down next to her and ask a question about her (Why is she sitting alone? Why is she sad in the club? Why is such a beautiful girl not having fun?);
• Depending on the answer, decide whether to continue the conversation or not:
• if she answers that she is waiting for a guy / waiting for a guy to pick her up, etc., it is better to politely move away from this communication, since it is meaningless;
• if the girl laughs it off, says that she is waiting for a friend, etc., you can continue the conversation.

• ask what she likes or wants to drink and treat;
• defuse the conversation with a joke, ask the girl about her;
• take a phone number.

If a girl with company girlfriends sitting at a table in a club:

• send a company of girls from yourself champagne / wine, etc. Thus, you can win over not only the chosen one, but also her friends. This is very important, because girls like to advise, discuss guys;
• after a while, approach the ladies and ask if they liked the present;
• start a conversation with all the girls, trying to stay closer to the one you like;
• in the course of the conversation, unobtrusively find out if she has a young man;
• if not, continue the conversation, ask for a phone number.

At the karaoke club

Many clubs have karaoke. If the girl is there, the original way of dating is choose a beautiful song and sing for it. This method is suitable for those guys who sing well. If there is no confidence in the vocal data, it is better not to take risks so as not to look stupid.

Fundamental Truths

In any case, during the acquaintance, you will have to act according to the situation. Talk and make decisions too. However, there are rules that you need to know and follow in order to get to know a girl perfectly.

Appearance

Uncertainty at the very entrance to the club will destroy all plans for a successful acquaintance. All the girls who are in the club at the time of your appearance are watching all the people entering it.

If an insecure, stumbling, stammering guy shows up, no one will pay attention to him.

Confidence

She is important not only at the first appearance, but always. When talking with people, a girl you like, there should be confidence in movements, manners. Not to be confused with arrogance. Insecure people do not attract attention, do not arouse interest.

Sociability

At the first stage, you should not concentrate all your attention on one girl. Even if she really liked it.

The fact is that women are interested in popular, attractive men. The best option communication will be a strategy "closer-further".

It means either increased attention to the chosen one, or complete distance and communication with other ladies. So it will seem that you are very in demand and popular. The main thing is not to allow yourself too much, so as not to look too frivolous.

Less words

The club has loud music, beats, and talking is not always convenient. Don't get too carried away with talking. There are many non-verbal ways to communicate: looks, gestures, dance, etc. You have to speak if necessary. In the club you can easy to get to know without words, it is worth practicing this method.

Take action!

The main rule for everyone. Club - scene and not conversations. If someone sits alone and aloof in a nightclub, he looks like a recluse and a loser. You can’t “guard the place”, you need to move, move, maintain the overall dynamics. Otherwise, it is easy to get out of the big picture and stay on the outskirts of the celebration of life.

The best option

All the qualities that are beneficial for a successful acquaintance in a nightclub fit into one situation. A good example of meeting a girl in a club:

• she liked;
• you need to quickly, with a firm step to approach (confidence);
• take her hand (fewer words);
• lead you to the dance floor (act);
• dance with her, hugging her waist, moving together, etc.;
• after the dance, take her by the hand, drag her to the bar;
• treat, find out the phone.

Refusal

What to do if the girl refused, does not show interest. Such situations often arise in nightclubs, since a girl is not always ready for an instant acquaintance. Here important to understand with what expression and for what purpose she does it.

Sometimes women refuse so that men ask again. You will immediately feel it. In this case, you should approach a little later in a different situation and try to make an acquaintance again.

If the girl refused seriously, it is worth retreating. Nothing good shines with this girl, you should not waste time and run into rudeness.

Safety

Do not neglect your safety during club dating. It is better to be vigilant and attentive. When meeting a girl, you can easily provoke a conflict or even a fight. This is not worth doing.

To avoid any incidents need to make sure the girl is free. Her sudden appearance young man may end in a very violent showdown. If the conflict is still brewing, you need to try to extinguish it in the bud. AT night club go to rest, not to fight.

Thus, dating in a nightclub is different from dating in all other places, it has both pluses and minuses.

Basic postulates of dating in a club with a girl:

• be self-confident, but not arrogant;
• be sociable but not intrusive;
• be in the center of events, but not scattered;
• be dynamic and mobile;
• do not provoke conflicts;
• find an original way to meet a girl;
• act according to the situation, make decisions quickly;
• do not get hung up on one girl at once;
• don't talk too much.

The main thing is to be yourself and then everything will work out.

You don't have to pretend to be the person you are not. Any acquaintance is a step that can completely change your life. That is why you need to do this as often and as much as possible, suddenly a new girl you know is happiness for the rest of your life, who knows ...