Which means marriages are made in heaven. Marriage is made in heaven - how to understand? Cancer and Pisces
— Father Artemy, once students of the Samara Theological Seminary asked you: “How to find good wife? How to find a good wife?
“It seems that then it was easier than now, because fifteen to twenty years have passed since the visit to Samara. At that time, young people still understood the phrases “an enviable groom” or “a girl of marriageable age.” Although they sounded somewhat old-fashioned even then, they still represented the ideal of family life, when a young man, in search of love, considered it natural for himself to end the friendship with nothing but matrimony, marriage.
I am an optimist, and my optimism is based on the fact that people still come to priests who want to take into their hands the burning candles of sacrificial love. Sometimes you are amazed at how similar the bride and groom are. It's amazing how in this big world two halves of one whole found each other?! I find only one answer: God's finger, marriages are made in heaven. Therefore, finding a life partner is not just the fruit of your activity. Happiness, they said in the old days, must be begged for.
Marriage is completeness, in relation to which each of us is a half, and a flawed one at that. And the main thing here is ardent faith in the Savior, Who unites the hearts of those getting married, as soon as they utter an answer, an oath of mutual fidelity and love.
If the heart of at least one of the spouses is warmed by living prayer to the Lord and the Most Holy Theotokos, I am convinced that there is no such misfortune or adversity that cannot be overcome if this enlightened half helps his companion in life to endure everything with hope in Christ. If I think about my family life, if I understand that caring for my family is an expression of love for God, how could circumstances arise that would force me to leave the battlefield, throw away my shield and sword in the middle of battle, turn my back on my home and children? , to the one to whom you once said: “I love you”?
It is not enough to get married, it is important to have a relationship with the Mother Church. If our husbands came to the priest once a week, once every two weeks for spiritual medical examination, monitored their thoughts and revealed their secret sins, no “Trojan horse” would enter the family, and the spouses would look at them twenty and forty years later at each other, if not with loving eyes, then with joy and joy, thanking God for bringing them together in this world.
- So vital important question: creating a family, and often decisions are made uninformed, according to the desire of the heart. How do you explain such frivolity?
“We cannot completely exclude the heart from the secret of dating. “I remember a wonderful moment - you appeared in front of me...”
And I would like to think about this question. Why, having fallen in love or thinking that he has fallen in love, does he - a rough-cast man - become gentle, gallant, and give flowers? His face, previously fierce, is illuminated by a childish smile, and he extends his compliments to her. And at the same time in home circle in relation to his mother, brother, and friends, he remains rude, boorish, his speech is abrupt, his face is completely unkind. Why such a double standard? Can the human heart really love and be rude at the same time? What is the object of his love? Does he love her? Or does he satisfy himself with some biological urge of the soul, finding in it only an object for the application of the forces that animate him? Loving her, he consumes her, treats her possessively. “I can’t live without her!” - this is actually sucking on your “ego” and your own, not very sublime, desires.
“Probably the most key moment of the wedding is when the priest leads the wedding couple around the lectern, while the singers sing “Holy Martyrs.” Newlyweds usually don’t pay attention to this chant; it seems to them that only happiness awaits them ahead... And why do they sing “Holy Martyr” at the wedding?
“I think because maintaining unanimity, unanimity, and agreement in our time is a martyr’s work that requires intellect, patience, humility, determination, and the exertion of all the spiritual powers of a person.” It is much easier to turn into a cat and a dog after marriage, colliding like the knight of the White Rose with his mistress Copper Mountain, striking sparks from each other through offensive, ironic, harsh words. And on the contrary, to be able not to succumb to provocations, to soften the sharp edges, to respond to a caustic word with thoughtful silence, while secretly praying: “Lord, soften my husband’s heart, give him grace.” Smiling when your loved one next to you frowns, droops, breathing vital optimism and energy into him - this is the hardest work, comparable to a real feat.
— For some reason, fairy tales always end with a wedding feast; can there really be only a fairy tale about a fisherman and a fish or a capricious princess?
— Russian fairy tales really often bring us to this conclusion, and then break off. It used to be that the heroes of family life did not even have time to love each other, but since everything was cultivated in them - both humility and the thirst for creation, as soon as they played the wedding, God's grace descended on them and life flowed in a peaceful direction. The foundations forged over millennia did not suggest a different way of life. It was a union that over the years opened up like a mustard seed and grew into a tall, mighty tree, in the crown of which the birds of the air lived.
Love is affirmed and confirmed by small actions, words, looks. Tsarina Alexandra Feodorovna, who left us a diary about family life, says that we need to plant love, like a garden, seed by seed, stalk by stem, cultivating care, tenderness, tact, words, behind which stand deeds.
- What causes dissatisfaction with marriage?
“Nowadays people tend to accumulate negativity in their hearts. But the wiser a person is, the closer to God, the shorter his memory for all sorts of insults. Every day he thanks the Creator for both sorrow and joy, and therefore the sphere of his positive emotions expands. He is calm, joyful, peaceful.
Imagine, people haven’t even lived together for six months, and they are already starting to notice shortcomings; a thrown word grows from a fly into an elephant. What kind of satisfaction is there if both resemble a bare wire?! Like two roosters, they jump at each other, turning the paradise of family life into the first circle of hell. Accordingly, you need to learn complacency, the ability to see the bright side in everything.
In marriage, life according to the flesh is a mutual expression of love, attraction to each other. And dissatisfaction with marriage arises immediately after he and she do everything they can, even mutilating themselves, to abolish fatherhood and motherhood, becoming potential murderers, hostile to the life that is given to us.
— Can humble acceptance of everyday life be considered a feat?
— Russian theologian Alexey Stepanovich Khomyakov considered this a feat. There is a feat in battle, in battle. And - the feat of service in everyday life. The boat of family happiness will never crash into everyday life if we wax poetic about our everyday life. If we try to make the house a paradise, if we permeate it with an atmosphere of love, warmth, if we generously share the happiness that God Himself speaks of: “Where two are married in My name, there I am among them.”
— What distinguishes a happy family from an unhappy one?
- Happy spouses feel good together, they can just be silent, they don’t need to constantly talk, since the quiet Angel who overshadowed them at the wedding hour still spreads its wings over them. A happy family- this, of course, is the family that God blessed with children. However, spouses can also be childless - their destinies, God’s lots, are different. However, where the house is filled with children, where there is laughter, where parents receive revelations from children, because the truth is often spoken through the mouth of a baby, there is happiness. A happy family is where the candle burns in front of the image Holy Mother of God. It seems to me that the happiest moment is for the spouses to pray together in the morning, giving thanks for the night they lived and asking for a blessing for the day that has begun. A happy family is ready to joyfully share what God has sent with friends in faith.
This catchphrase is very ancient. And as long as the world has known her, they argue about her so much. What does "Marriages are made in heaven" mean? If higher powers bring couples together, then why are there so many divorces? If divine powers are present during marriage, then why are there so many family tragedies, domestic violence, and simply unhappy people in marriage?
They say that our plans and our worldview do not always coincide with the plans of God. He has his own goals, we have ours. He helps people unite in marriage for a higher mission than a quiet one family life and children. For example, in the Bible, in the Book of Judges of Israel, it is told about Samson, who married a Philistine woman, who was a wife “from God,” but was not happy with her. Samson's wife quarreled with the Philistines within 7 days; Samson severely punished the latter.
This marriage was pleasing to the Lord because it helped him punish the Philistines at the hands of Samson. They ruled Israel for a long time, and after the Lord’s punishment, Samson became “the judge of Israel for 20 years.” The Book of Genesis tells of another man, Isaac, who was happily married. This marriage was pleasing to the Lord, since Isaac became the ancestor of the Jewish people.
And it is no coincidence that biblical characters are taken as examples of interpretation. Exactly In ancient interpretations of the Bible, words are found for the first time that marriages take place in heaven. We are talking about Midrash - the Jewish interpretation of the Holy Scripture, or more precisely about its first part - the interpretation of the book of Genesis (“Bereshit Rabba”). The phrase appears in a passage describing the story of Isaac and his wife Rebekah. The text dates back to the 5th century.
Another author of the phrase is quite well known - Margarita of Navarre, Queen of Navarre and famous writer. In her work “About Two Lovers,” she discusses the topic of marriage made by agreement or by love. Margarita says that if the marriage is for love, then it is made in heaven, if it is by coercion or conspiracy, then there is no divine providence here.
The famous St. Bartholomew's Night in Paris became possible thanks to the large gathering of representatives of opposing faiths in the city, as well as the arrival of Huguenot leaders there. A massive event that attracted opponents - Huguenots and Catholics - was the wedding of Margaret of Valois (Catholic) and Henry of Navarre (Huguenot).
This marriage did not bring happiness to either her or him. The whole world today knows about the love affairs of both, about the conclusion of Margaret and other tragedies associated with the history of this marriage, which, by the way, was ultimately dissolved when Henry became the French king. In a letter to one of her lovers, Margarita once wrote that she did not believe that marriages were made in heaven, because heaven was not capable of such injustice.
Some sources name the author of the statement as the English writer J. Lily. The phrase appears in his 1580 work "Euphues and his England". In the 16th century, the biblical phrase was supplemented: “and are fulfilled on earth.” This option was even included in the French legal collection of 1608.
Almost no one today believes that marriages are made in heaven. But if we proceed from the fact that everything in our lives is not accidental, then the connection of two people does not happen just like that - it means that someone needs it.
This expression is perceived by many as a metaphor, a poetic image telling about an ideal or about fate: they say, this is how it is destined (if something is wrong). But the famous researcher of mysterious phenomena, Vitaly Pravdivtsev, believes that these words have a literal meaning, and explains why. Maybe, after reading his article, you will believe it too. Of course, what the author writes about looks like science fiction. But if you think about it, this fantastic version clarifies many of the realities of our Life.
"...You must be born again..."
Gospel of John (3, 7)
“Thou shalt not commit adultery,” says one of the commandments of Holy Scripture. It would seem a ridiculous prohibition in these times, when you rarely meet a faithful spouse, and endless films, books, and even our friends tell us about endless affairs, infidelities, casual intimacy with the first person we meet, in search of pleasure. It would be a pleasure, because everything is so simple! If!
Yes, in fact, sexual intercourse is accompanied by pleasure. And this is the great wisdom of the Creator. He gives his creatures joy and pleasure from everything that is really necessary in life. The human race would have ended long ago if people had not experienced pleasure in “this.” But the highest goal of sexual intercourse is still not pleasure, but the conception of a new life.
Conception is a great mystery. And these are not just words, they have the deepest meaning. It opened up to me only after becoming acquainted with esoteric literature. It turns out that it doesn’t matter with whom you “have fun” or with whom you have a child. And it's not just about heredity.
Esotericists are convinced of the immortality of man. More precisely, in the immortality of that part of him that is preserved after the death of his physical body and which is called the monad. In fact, each of us is his monad, which “through trial and error” develops its own unique experience on Earth. Having accumulated some of it, after the death of the physical body, she rises “up” and there “in heaven” in a disembodied state, as it were, comprehends her mistakes and successes. Then, having processed the information and “rested,” the monad again descends to Earth, where it again clothes itself with material flesh, etc. And so on endlessly.
Ancient philosophers were sure that conception was a cosmic act. Today, many scientists are also inclined to this idea. Bioenergetics people are simply convinced that during sexual intercourse there is a strong release of invisible energies. This joint energy vortex, a rope woven from male and female energies, soars upward like a tornado and bursts into the subtle worlds of the Earth, where souls who have completed the period of “rest in heaven” await their incarnation. The quality of the energy vortex of the future parents determines which soul will connect to the mother. The higher the feelings a man and a woman experience for each other, the more subtle energy is released at the moment of their intimacy, the higher the layers of other-dimensional spaces it penetrates, the higher the soul is drawn in for incarnation. The energy funnel captures the soul ready for earthly life and draws it in “down”, connecting to the body of the expectant mother. Here she will gradually clothe herself with a bodily shell. And if the parents’ feelings at the moment of conception were strong and high, after some time a harmonious personality will be born, beautiful both internally and externally. The well-known formula is “From true love beautiful children are born” - has very serious confirmation.
The cosmic process of conception is universal: this happens to both humans and animals. The difference is that the energy vortex of animals is not able to penetrate such high spheres of the Earth, where human monads await their incarnation. But the human vortex can also end up in lower spheres. If sexual contact is not caused by love, but by an elementary physiological need, the energy vortex will be weak and will not be able to rise high. And therefore it will capture for incarnation a soul from the lower layers of the Earth - still underdeveloped and primitive, located in the first stages of evolution. Well, we get what we deserve!
But there are worse situations. Under certain conditions, the top of the energy vortex can deviate away from the area of human evolution and burst into the area of another type of life - animals or other non-human civilizations parallel to our world. And then a non-human entity can be drawn in to incarnate in a human body. Such a deviation of the “tornado” can be caused by a violation of the subtle energy of at least one of the partners. Conception during alcohol or drug intoxication is especially dangerous - you can get as a child an entity devoid of a human soul: what the common people used to call a non-human. It is no coincidence that in the old days, newlyweds at weddings were not allowed to drink “green wine” - they were only allowed to sip.
The fact that among people not everyone has human souls was said in ancient sacred books. These non-humans (or demons) have a completely human appearance (it is determined by the laws of genetics), but their morality is so far from human that we often perceive them as villains. However, it is still impossible to say that non-humans are necessarily conscious agents of evil. Often they do not even realize that they are causing suffering to those who deal with them. It’s just that the laws of our morality are alien and incomprehensible to them. They approach love at the barnyard level, their affections are superficial and fleeting. We are not talking about any self-sacrifice and nobility at all. Compassion, gratitude, faith in goodness are an empty phrase for them. Despite all this, they themselves are often unhappy and lonely: what is it like to feel like strangers among people? They should have been born somewhere in another world, but they appeared here, among us.
They are often “devilishly” smart and inventive. Sometimes they have a cold analytical mind, straightforwardness, and masculinity. Sometimes extraordinary physical strength, remarkable health. And in general there is something extraordinary about them that attracts and attracts people. But only at first: after a while they begin to be avoided, feared and even hated... This is understandable: how can one treat a person who lives by the “law of the jungle”: “Strong, devour the weak!”
Esotericists are convinced that the Cosmos is an endless living organism that has its own “organs,” each of which performs a specific function. In turn, these “organs” consist of a huge number of “cells” - energy-information cells, which are the birthplace of those very “sparks”. Spirit" - the monads we talked about at the beginning. Each monad has its own “homeland” - a specific cosmic cell. Monads born in its depths scatter throughout the Universe and, like bees bringing nectar to their hive, enrich their cosmic family with the information they receive.
And here we come to the most interesting part. The fact is that, as a rule, monads from their cosmic cell are sent to Earth for “study” not alone, but in groups - a kind of “teams”. All members of the “team” have some common task. Even in the subtle, divine world, their future incarnations on Earth were agreed upon: some of them will become relatives, some - friends, some - loved ones... Probably this has happened to you: it seems like you are seeing a person for the first time, but It seems that I have known him for a hundred years - dear. This is usually a sign that you are from the same “cosmic family” and have met several times before. Here on Earth, or “there”, “in heaven”. “There are no coincidences for a Christian,” said religious philosopher K.S. Lewis. “Christ can truly say to every circle of friends: “You did not choose one another, but I chose you for one another.”
And the familiar, seemingly common phrase: “Marriages are made in heaven” has a hidden meaning! Still “there” someone is destined to become spouses on Earth. They must not only help each other on the difficult path of “learning,” but also give earthly life to the monad waiting “in heaven” for its next incarnation.
Who chooses where and when a child is born? Ourselves? Completeness! In our lives, we are free to do many things according to our own understanding, but, you see, we cannot influence either the moment of conception, or the time of birth of the child, or its gender. (Science, however, has taken some steps in this area, there are even recommendations - like “how to give birth to a boy or a girl,” but all of them are not universal and unreliable. - Author.) Not to mention his abilities. These important points people are not trusted, but are predetermined “from above.” Souls just beginning their formation are helped to choose an earthly family by senior “comrades” in the cosmic family. Souls that are sufficiently mature and wise from the experience of many lives on Earth decide for themselves when, in which country and in which family they will be born. Neither nation, nor social status, nor religious beliefs are of significant importance in this regard. The main thing is to gain maximum experience yourself and help the rest of your “team” gain it...
And although in any case the child chooses his parents, and not vice versa, something still depends on us... In any case, what kind of soul it will be - pure and high or non-human...
Often a monad comes to a family, which was previously related to it, but for some reason was unable to complete its earthly mission. Recently, a report appeared in the press about an interesting case being studied by scientists at Harvard University. He came from the family of Henry and Eileen Rogers. A few years ago, tragedy befell them: their twelve-year-old son Terence died. And, according to doctors, 35-year-old Eileen could not have more children. But three years later, to the surprise of doctors, she gave birth to a son.
The first years of life Frank, as they called him happy parents, did not attract much attention to himself - a child is like a child. But one day... “Mom, turn on the TV, I want to watch a film about the sheriff from Dodge City,” Frank asked in the voice of his dead brother. Mrs. Rogers was shocked: the film that Terence once loved very much had not appeared on screens for ten years. How did Frank know about him? After some time, it was my father’s turn to be surprised: “Dad, where is our red Pontiac?” When will you repair my tricycle?” About seven years ago, the Rogers actually had such a car... The father also remembered about the bicycle that once long ago belonged to their deceased son. His wheel actually was broken.
Growing up, Frank began to use his older brother's favorite words and even intonations. He developed the same habits. He even renamed Toots's dog Butch - that was the name of Terence's once beloved spaniel. The psychiatrists, whom a priest friend recommended to see, were no less surprised than the parents. In old photographs, Frank recognized not only relatives, but also schoolmates and teachers of his deceased brother, called them all by names and nicknames, talked about such details and incidents that were known only to a narrow circle of people... The parents are convinced that the family their dead son returned...
Here's the story. For esotericists, this is another fact confirming their harmonious system of views on the Universe. And for skeptics - food for thought. Now scientists are seriously studying this strange boy. Moreover, this is not the first such case...
There is another reason for a spouse or sexual partner to be a “cosmic relative” and not just anyone. The fact is that during an act of physiological love, not only the transfer of genetic material to a woman occurs, but also a powerful information exchange of subtle energies. A man and a woman mutually enrich each other: the experience and knowledge of the male monad develop the intellectual sphere of a woman. A woman, in turn, awakens a man’s creative powers and conveys to him important spiritual qualities, thereby enriching his emotional, sensual sphere. True, there is one very important “but”... Productive information exchange is possible only between “related” monads! I suspect that what has been said will upset someone, but I can’t help: promiscuity with “alien” monads only leads to a loss of energy and slows down evolution this person...
Generally speaking, finding a “cosmic relative” or a member of your “team” as a spouse is a great success. But it is quite achievable. You just need to know something and purposefully look for this soul mate, and not just a sex partner. And then the marriage will be happy, and the children will be “no problem.” But it is even more rare and great happiness to find your so-called “true match” - that only betrothed who was appointed “in heaven.”
Marriages are made in heaven. “I will not commit adultery,” says one of the commandments of Holy Scripture. It would seem like a wonderful ban. Especially in these times, when you rarely find a faithful spouse. And when everyone around - movies, books, friends - whispers: “What difference does it make who you sleep with? It would be a pleasure, because it won’t hurt anyone...”. If only it were that simple!
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Yes, in fact, sexual intercourse is accompanied by pleasure. And this is the great wisdom of the Creator. He gives his creatures joy and pleasure from everything that is truly necessary in life. The human race would have ended long ago if people had not experienced pleasure in “this.” But the highest goal of sexual intercourse is still not it, but the conception of a new life. Conception is a great mystery. And these are not empty words, they have the deepest meaning. It opened up to me only after becoming acquainted with esoteric literature. It turns out that it doesn’t matter who you “sleep” with. And it's not just about heredity. Esotericists are convinced of the immortality of man. More precisely, in the immortality of that part of him that remains after the death of his physical body and which is called the MONAD. At one time we already spoke about these “sparks of the Spirit” that lie at the basis of any rational being. In fact, each of us is a monad, a cosmic soul, which “through trial and error” develops its unique experience on Earth. Having accumulated a part of it, after the death of the physical body... it rises “up” and there, “in heaven”, as it were, comprehends its mistakes and successes. Then, having processed the information and “rested,” the soul again descends to Earth, where it again clothes itself with material flesh, etc. This is such a whirlwind. Like at school: academic year- holidays - new class.... Even ancient philosophers believed that conception was a cosmic act. Today, many scientists are also inclined to this idea. Bioenergy specialists are simply convinced that during sexual intercourse a couple experiences a strong release of invisible energies. Like a tornado, this joint energy vortex - a rope woven from male and female energy - soars “up” and bursts into the subtle worlds of the Earth, where, as mystics say, souls who have completed the period of “rest in heaven” await their incarnation. Which of them will connect to the expectant mother largely depends on the parents, or more precisely, on the quality of their energy vortex. The higher the feelings a man and a woman experience for each other, the more subtle energy is released at the moment of their intimacy, the higher the layers of otherworldly spaces it penetrates, the higher the soul is “drawn in” for incarnation. And after some time, a harmonious personality will be born, beautiful both internally and externally. The well-known formula: “Beautiful children are born from love” has very serious real confirmation. If sexual intercourse is caused...
not by love, but by an elementary physiological need, the energy vortex will be weak and will not be able to rise high. And therefore it will capture for incarnation a soul from the lower layers of the Earth - still underdeveloped and primitive, located in the first stages of evolution. We get what we deserve! But there are worse situations. Under certain conditions, the top of the energy vortex can deviate away from the area of human evolution and burst into the area of another type of life - animals or other non-human civilizations parallel to our world. And then a non-human entity can be drawn in to incarnate in a human body. Such a deviation of the “tornado” can be caused by a violation of the subtle energy of at least one of the partners. Conception during alcohol or drug intoxication is especially dangerous - this is a serious chance of receiving as a child an entity devoid of a human soul - what was previously popularly called “NON-HUMANS”. It is no coincidence that in the old days, newlyweds at weddings were not allowed to drink “green wine” - they were only allowed to sip. The fact that among people not everyone has human souls was said in ancient sacred books. These “non-humans” or “demons” have a human appearance (it is determined by the laws of genetics), but their morality is so far from human that we often perceive them as villains. However, it is necessary to say that “non-humans”...
conscious agents of evil, it is still impossible. Often they do not even realize that they are causing suffering to those who deal with them. It’s just that the laws of our morality are alien and incomprehensible to them. They approach love at the barnyard level, their affections are superficial and fleeting. There is no talk of any self-sacrifice or nobility at all. Compassion, nobility, selfless faith in goodness are an empty phrase for them. With all this, they themselves are often unhappy alone: what is it like to feel like strangers among people? They should have been born somewhere in another world, but they are born here, among us. They are often “devilishly” smart and inventive. Sometimes they have a cold analytical mind, straightforwardness, and masculinity. Sometimes - extraordinary physical strength, remarkable health. And in general there is something unusual about them that attracts and attracts people. But only at first: after a while they begin to be avoided and even hated.... This is understandable: how can you treat a person for whom the main slogan of life is the “law of the jungle”: “Strong, devour the weak!” Each soul has its own cosmic homeland. The monad souls born in its depths scatter throughout the Universe and, like bees bringing nectar to their hive, enrich their cosmic family with the information they receive. And here we come to the most interesting part. The fact is that souls, as esotericists believe, are sent to earth not alone, but in groups. And they have some common task. Even in the subtle, divine world, their future incarnations on Earth are agreed upon: some will become relatives, some will become friends, some will become loved ones... You yourself have probably noticed: it seems like you are seeing a person for the first time, but it seems that I have known him for a hundred years. Native. Usually this is a sign that they are from the same “cosmic family” and have met several times before. Here on Earth, or “there”, “in heaven”. “For a Christian there are no accidents,” said the religious philosopher C.S. Lewis. “Christ can truly say to any circle of friends: “You did not choose one another, but I chose you for each other.” A seemingly common phrase: “Marriages are celebrated on heavens." But there is a hidden meaning behind it! It is also “there” that they are destined to become spouses on Earth. They must not only help each other on the difficult path of “learning,” but also give earthly life to the cosmic soul - the monad, waiting “in heaven” for its next incarnation. But it is not they who choose their child. None of us can influence either the moment of conception, or the moment of birth of our child, or its gender. Not to mention his abilities. These important moments are not entrusted to us, but are predetermined “from above.” For souls just beginning their formation, senior comrades in the cosmic family help them choose an earthly family. Mature and wise from the experience of many lives on Earth,...
.souls themselves decide when, in what country and in what family they will be born. In any case, the child chooses his parents, and not vice versa. But what kind of soul it will be - pure and high or “non-human” - depends on our energy.... Often a soul comes to a family, which was previously in a family relationship with it, but for some reason could not complete its earthly life. mission. A report appeared in the press about an interesting case being studied by scientists at Harvard University. He came from the family of Henry and Eileen Rogers. A few years ago, tragedy befell them: their twelve-year-old son Terence died under the wheels of a truck. And, according to doctors, Eileen could not have more children. And yet, despite such a gloomy prognosis, three years later, to the surprise of doctors, she gave birth to a son. For the first three years of his life, Frank, as his happy parents called him, did not attract much attention to himself - a child was like a child. But one day... “Mom, turn on the TV, I want to watch a movie about the sheriff,” Frank asked in the voice of his dead brother. The shocked Mrs. Rogers almost lost her knitting: the film that Terence had once loved had not appeared on screens for ten years. How did Frank know about him? After some time, it was my father’s turn to be surprised: “Dad, where is our red Pontiac? When will you repair my tricycle?” The father, amazed by what he heard, could not come to...
myself: about seven years ago the Rogers actually had such a car. He also had difficulty remembering the bicycle that had long ago belonged to their deceased son. His wheel actually was broken. Further - more... Growing up, Frank began to use his favorite words and even intonations of his older brother. He developed the same habits. He even baptized Toots's dog Butch - that was the name of Terence's once beloved spaniel. The psychiatrists, whom a priest friend recommended to see, were no less surprised than the parents. In old photographs, Frank unmistakably recognized not only relatives, but also schoolmates and teachers of his deceased brother, called them all by names and nicknames, talked about such details and incidents that were known only to a narrow circle of people... The parents are convinced that the family their dead son returned... This is the story. For those who believe in another world, this is another fact confirming their harmonious system of views on the universe. and for skeptics - food for thought. Now scientists are seriously studying this strange baby. Moreover, this is not the first case in practice... There is another reason for a “cosmic relative” to be a spouse or sexual partner, and not just anyone. Productive information exchange is possible only between kindred souls! I suspect that what I said will upset someone, but I can’t help:...
promiscuous sexual relations with “alien” monad souls only lead to a loss of energy and slow down the evolution of a given person.... Generally speaking, finding a “cosmic relative” as a spouse is a great success. But it is quite achievable. You just need to know something and purposefully look for this soul mate, and not just a sex partner. And then the marriage will be happy, and the children will be “no problem.” But it is even more rare and great happiness to find your so-called true match - that only betrothed who was appointed “in heaven.”
Before considering which couples among the zodiac signs are the most ideal, it is worth understanding what we mean by this definition. It is no secret that each person has his own life experience and certain views. A love union is a collision of two worlds that have existed independently for a long time. Of course, the attempt to unite them rarely goes without difficulties. We argue, we get offended, we are indignant - in a word, we go through a period of getting used to it.
It is quite difficult to imagine a completely flawless relationship that, once started, would not have any negative episodes throughout its course. Of course, this is also possible, but only as an exception. If you know examples of cloudless relationships, then write about such zodiac signs - it is possible that we will talk about them later in this article.
So what do we mean by a perfect couple? This is a combination of zodiac signs that have an astrological predisposition to be together. It is easier for them to see eye to eye, find common interests, overcome difficulties, and fall in love with each other. When we meet such people, we often admire them. It is often said that this match is apparently made in heaven, or that these people must have loved each other in a past life and met in this life to continue their happiness.
Any ideal union is a great success and a godsend, but this does not mean that people who find a suitable soul mate will not have to work on themselves or deal with difficulties. In some ways it will, of course, be easier than for most other couples, but relationships are always a contribution, always initiative and attention to each other.
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Now we will look at the most successful combinations of zodiac signs, but remember that if you don’t find your option there, it’s okay, because your union will be ideal even without this if you both try for the sake of common happiness.
Aries and Aquarius
We often hear that representatives of the Air element combine well in alliances with representatives of the Fire element. And it is true. The pair of Aries and Aquarius is one of the most harmonious and can rightfully be called ideal. Both striving for freedom, new experiences, discoveries and travel, the partners fit each other like pieces of a puzzle. This is more than love - it is also friendship, full of joy, smiles, passion and sincere, cheerful laughter. The ardor of such lovers will not fade over the years; they will never have to think about how to fill their leisure time or how to spend the weekend, since new ideas that are interesting to both of them always appear on the horizon.
Aries and Sagittarius
This is not just an alliance, but a real raging fire element. Two different kinds of flame merge into one. This is a union overflowing with energy, the enthusiasm and strength of which is felt by all people around. To someone from the outside it may seem that Aries and Sagittarius are just an inseparable pair of friends who are passionate about common interests and, as adults, are childish with each other, but this is a somewhat superficial judgment. In reality, Aries and Sagittarius are simply always on the same wavelength, as they say, absorbed in each other and communicate easily, understanding everything perfectly. Someone may call their union too loud, too bright, almost crazy, but for Aries and Sagittarius it is sweet madness, which only they can share and understand - and no one else.
Taurus and Cancer
The relationship between Taurus and Cancer is built very subtly. This is a sensual union, imbued with psychological trends that are elusive to other people. It will be difficult for an outside observer to believe how well these partners feel for each other, how attentive they are to detail, thrifty in relationships and tender. All their friends can say: Cancer and Taurus are a very strong couple in which there are practically no disagreements. Yes, it looks that way, but no one really knows how these people support each other and how touching and romantic their union really is, since their private things are not intended for the eyes of strangers.
Taurus and Capricorn
Taurus and Virgo
This is a very balanced union. If Taurus is a sign that can get along with many, since it can be different, then Virgo is a person of strict rules and unwavering views. This inflexibility of Virgo makes her a rather difficult partner to find. mutual language, and even more so to find happiness in marriage. However, Taurus is not only capable of this, but also senses Virgo so well that they are one of the most successfully compatible couples known to astrology. It is quite difficult to explain to an outsider why Virgo and Taurus are so good together. They may seem boring and lacking passion. But this is only because both of them are not used to demonstrating their feelings in public. In reality, their union is a carefully planned, literally measured to the millimeter, ideal diamond, which sparkles with even facets of passion, love, respect and friendship. In terms of balance, Taurus and Virgo are a perfect match.
Gemini and Libra
These two representatives of the Air element tend to hover high above the earth, so not everyone will be able to get close enough to understand why partners admire each other so much. From the outside it may seem that they have the quietest life, completely devoid of any bright events, expensive acquisitions, long journeys and everything that many people need so much in order to feel happy. By no means, Gemini and Libra do not deny such values and do not renounce them, but they place them much higher psychological aspects communication and intelligence of your partner. They are both excellent scholars, they can have lively conversations, plunging deeper and deeper into the most complex topics, the dreams of their partner, as well as the most hidden corners of each other’s consciousness.
Gemini and Aquarius
And again, representatives of the Air element found themselves on the list of the most ideal couples in the zodiac circle. But the situation here is somewhat different than in the previous case. Gemini and Aquarius find their common interests in the most unconventional aspects of life. They are interested in discovering something new about this world together. Variability and inconstancy can confuse representatives of various zodiac signs, but not these two! All changes for them are just a reason for new discovery, research and acquisition of knowledge. They are not afraid to experiment and strongly support each other in any endeavor. To some, this life will seem like chaos, but for Gemini and Aquarius it is a hurricane of emotions, feelings and happiness.
Cancer and Scorpio
This is a very emotional union. It is literally saturated with life and has its own rapidly beating heart. If you ask someone who knows Cancer and Scorpio whether these two are suitable for each other, he will answer without hesitation that they are not - and he will be mistaken. This is truly a very unusual union. These are two emotional, sensual, deep people, communication with whom is not given to every representative of the opposite sex. And it seems that two such complex personalities will simply torture each other in an alliance, but this never happens. Scorpio takes care of the fragile and vulnerable nature of Cancer, and he, in turn, respects the strong passion of Scorpio. They unite at the deepest levels, which allows them to create a strong and happy union. Sometimes Cancer and Scorpio don’t even need to talk to each other to understand what their partner needs. They just feel good from the very closeness - the feeling that dear person near.
Cancer and Pisces
This is a very remarkable couple. They are not just representatives of the same element of Water. It's something more. People perceive them as a single whole. The husband and wife in such unions become very similar to each other, hold the same opinions on various issues and generally live on the same wavelength. Often, someone you know may, while telling something about one, get confused and mention the other, and in principle it is quite difficult to perceive this pair separately. You will rarely hear about Cancer and Pisces quarreling over disagreement on any issue. The furnishings of their home usually do not contain elements that stand out from the overall harmony. “Soul to soul” is a phrase about Cancer and Pisces. Usually they meet each other at some thematic events and become closer based on common interests. Often the spouses Cancer and Pisces are work colleagues, and even more often they are people of art who are passionate about the same thing. Families of artists and musicians are usually created by representatives of these particular zodiac signs.
Leo and Sagittarius
As it is not difficult to notice, many ideal couples consist of zodiac signs of the same element. This is understandable, because these people have a common nature, which means there are more points of contact that bring them closer together. The current version is no exception. Serious passions boil in the union of Leo and Sagittarius. Two types of fires intertwine to form a real fire. They are tightly woven into each other's lives, and it would be fair to compare each spouse to a real battery that feeds the strength and enthusiasm of the other. This pair are friends and accomplices, but not like-minded people. Each of them has their own interests, but both have deep respect for the life and hobbies of their partner. Thanks to this, Leo and Sagittarius will always come to each other’s rescue, help with practical advice, and if necessary, they themselves will make an effort in some important matter for their partner. Their intimate life could become a prototype for a spectacular erotic film, and everyday issues do not cause controversy at all. Of course, these two strong personalities also face conflicting interests, but this happens much less often than with many others.
Aquarius and Libra
This union can surprise. They do not strive to be understood by others, because the main thing is mutual understanding and clarity in relations with their partner. Their relationship may look extravagant, exotic, or even have some mystical connotation. The thing is that Libra and Aquarius are people who are able to get carried away by the most unusual issues, and joint research gives them incomparable pleasure. A family of astrologers, magicians, adventurers, circus performers, climbers - the list goes on, because Aquarius and Libra are unpredictable and will always find some unusual hobby together. But in addition to their interests, they have another connecting quality - both willingly give in to each other in order to achieve harmony in the relationship. They balance forces, smooth out conflicts, try to avoid excessive emotionality, and therefore their hearts beat easily and naturally in unison.
Pisces and Scorpio
They say about such people that they have a karmic connection. It is difficult to say whether this is always true, but this is exactly the impression that the pair of Pisces and Scorpio gives. It’s as if they were born in order to find each other, and when this happened, they don’t even try to get to know each other better, because it seems that they have known each other all their lives - even more than one. Their relationship goes smoothly, the transition from dating to marriage is almost always natural. It may seem as if all events life together Pisces and Scorpio have been rehearsed for a long time, and now they are simply played in front of the public. Their connection is so deep that often even words are not needed - only intuition is enough to understand what the partner wants. If some of the views of Pisces and Scorpio differ, then they try not to focus on this, preferring to switch to other topics.
We looked at an example of 12 unions that can be said to be made in heaven. The stars favor such couples, but, as mentioned above, you should not think that some other unions cannot be called ideal. The main thing is the desire to become better and find a common language with your partner. We are all capable of this, Thank you.
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